Dark Skies Show Us Stars

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One of my earliest childhood memories finds me waking from a deep sleep in the middle of the night, during a family road trip. Far from any city lights, I look out the window toward the sky above, and for the first time, I see what seemed to be an infinitude of stars. I’ll never know for sure if I was actually dreaming or not, but I still have the distinct recollection of becoming aware of the immensity of the universe in which we exist. I still recall the intense mix of awe, fear, and hope that I felt, unable to look away until the stars faded with the first light of day.

I often think back to that night and the deep connection I felt to the natural world. But in recent years, the memory has also taken on a metaphorical connotation, reminiscent of Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s famous words of hope, “Only when it is dark enough can you see the stars.” Today it is not uncommon to read or hear or believe that we are living in “dark times”—such is the state of the world, and our need for hope in the face of many challenges: climate change, inequality, isolation, pandemic, to name only a few.

I, too, have spent most of my life thinking of darkness as a problem demanding more light—in both the literal and the symbolic sense. But perhaps this fear of the dark has been part of our collective problem.

For all practical purposes, most of us now live in the perpetual glow of a world that never sleeps. As essayist and poet Mark Tredinnick has said, “Cities are factories for unmaking the night.” We are driven by commerce, for which darkness is just another inconvenient obstacle in the path of production and consumption; we rely on the latest technology to offer the facade of a connection to one another. But more light is not what we need; it’s more darkness.

Given the myriad ways in which we humans have all but severed our connection to the natural world, perhaps none will prove to be as profound as the loss of the night sky and of our connection to the dark.

The loss of our connection to darkness and to the night sky is emblematic of our deeper separation from the natural world. We need to question our blind acceptance of a world bathed in artificial light; to not fear the night but to reconnect with it, to be awed by it, to know that if we are patient, we will be able to see through the darkness. As I ponder how the technology to which we are now tethered is affecting me and those closest to me; as I wonder how I can guide my own child to embrace the night and understand that without darkness we are not just incomplete … we fail to dream.

I think back again on the voice of Martin Luther King Jr., the famous dream maker, who saw stars through the darkness. 

Seed Questions for Reflection

How do you relate to the notion that 'without darkness, we are not just incomplete, we fail to dream'? Can you share a personal story of a time you were able to embrace darkness and see the stars because of it? What helps you embrace the night?

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Mary
Mar 25, 2023
I saw for the first time in my life at age 68 the Milky Way. Oh I’d seen photos of the Milky Way but three years ago I was in the Adirondack mountains out side a friend’s camp climbing out of water after an evening dip when I looked up and saw the Milky Way. Only in the pitch black darkness could I see the magnificent of the Universe . No city lights, no computer or TV screens to distract my eyes. I was in total awe! I have faith that in the darkness I will see light and beauty and peace
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Michelle Malo-Esposito
Mar 24, 2023
Going away to the mountains to find a reprieve from the constant Lights around the suburbs, I am also awed by the Night Sky. Looking up into the vastness and seeing nothing but an endless sea of stars reminds us that we are part of that vastness... but without the ability to see the potential of our expansive existence, we remain stuck in only that which is "artificially lit up". Nature teaches the necessary balance of dark and Light. Spring Equinox is that exact expression. The human body needs darkness to cue the pituitary and pineal glands to secrete hormones that allow deep restful sleep. Through the depth of sleep, our brains and every cell of our body are renewed and repaired. Without the darkness, even the brightest light in the world can become dim because of our inability to feel vibrant and balanced and harmonious with nature.
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Kevin Holloman
Jun 27, 2021
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TM
Jan 10, 2021
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ZI
Jan 5, 2021
Oh! So beautiful -- the infinitude of stars. Thank you for the reminder.
DD
Jan 1, 2021
My belief is that darkness is the other side of light and together they make a whole. Without darkness the day would be incomplete. Yin requires yang to be a complete whole. I believe we are always dreaming and it's primarily in darkness when asleep that we see our dreams. Similarly,stars are always there, and it's only in darkness that we see them. One night in Zion National Park I embraced the darkness and saw an incredible beautiful star-filled sky because of the darkness and clean air. I embrace the nightwhen I'm outside because it gives me the opportunity to see the stars which enhances my feeling part of the cosmos and enhances my awe. Other reasons I embrace the night include that life seems to slow down during the night, I'm tired from the day and ready to relax and have a good night's sleep, I enjoy feelings of gratitude that arise, I look forward to dreams that may surprise me, and I get to lay down next to the lady I love.
JP
Jan 1, 2021
We all emphasizethe value of light, knowledge, and to move from darkness to light. All wisdom traditions relate to darkness as ignorance and as light as knowledge.Author Bear Guerra presents a different way of looking at darkness: Dark Skies Show Us Stars. By accepting darkness we get connectedwith natural world. The world we live in has been highly commercialized and unnaturalizedtaking us away from the natural world. We are drifting away from the natural rhythmsof day and night, light and darkness.I agree with the author when he writes,' without darkness we are noy just incomplete, we fail to dream." I happen to live in a community where I can see the stars twinkling in the dark sky. Such experiencesget me connected with natural world in which there is vastness and depth. I feel an integral part of the universe and feel the oneness of life. I feel the Divine Presence that liberates from my ignorance and makes me whole or holy. Such natural experiences are illuminating dispel... View full comment
SS
Jan 1, 2021
I and my life transformed when Death, total darkness, and the accompanying pain, physical and the grief for my soon to be motherless twins, turned me to choosing life. Suicidally depressed since 5, I fantasized about death, but only when the dark of actual death hovered all around me did I see the reality of the choice we have, hourly, to reach out to life or die. My world is no longer about black and white, but the dark revealing stars, and the light more beautiful when dancing with shadows.
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BJ Jan 5, 2021
It is a joy to know that you made the decision to live. We all encounter dark hours - yet we all strive to seek a new day. Your honesty is a reflection of the light inside of you. If it were not so, you would never have revealed the light of your dark situation. The joy of knowing that your twins are not "motherless" sends welcomed chills throughout my body. The world is a better place with you in it. Continue to fight to live. Life's challenges make us stronger and wiser. Thank you for sharing.
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Elainne Pfaff Jan 5, 2021
I can't thank you enough for sharing your heart here, Susan. As a spiritual director, I'm entrusted with the stories of sojourners who share their intimate experience of light in darkness. And I've witnessed directly how even a small spark can lead us through total darkness. You are helping me and many on this sacred journey. Long Life and Love to you!