Practice Over Parables

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Praxis anstelle von Gleichnissen
-von Jason Garner

Ein Zen-Lehrer erzählte mir einmal etwas Interessantes. Wir meditierten gerade zusammen bei mir zu Hause, als mein Hund zu bellen begann. Er spürte meine Erregung und sagte in seinem starken tasmanischen Akzent: "Sei nicht so pingelig bei Geräuschen. Es sind alles nur Geräusche." Diese Worte sind bei mir hängen geblieben. Wir neigen dazu, in der Meditation sehr empfindlich gegenüber Geräuschen zu sein. Wir empfinden bestimmte Musik oder Glockenspiele oder Gesänge als "schön", während die Geräusche des täglichen Lebens eine "Ablenkung" sind. Es ist so, wie ein anderer Lehrer mir einmal sagte, als er mich anleitete, meine Augen während der Meditation zu öffnen: "Wir schließen so viel vom Leben aus, wenn wir die Augen schließen."

Das ist tendenziell ein wichtiges Thema für die meisten von uns in der Spiritualität - der Versuch, spirituelle Praktiken oder Glaubenssätze zu benützen, um die Teile unseres Lebens auszuschließen, die wir als schlecht ansehen. Wenn wir ehrlich sind, ist der Wunsch, all die Dinge auszublenden, die wir nicht mögen, in der Regel die Motivation, sich überhaupt auf Spiritualität einzulassen. Aus diesem Grund habe ich gelernt zu meditieren. Ich wollte so sein wie die Bilder, die ich in Filmen gesehen hatte, wo der glückselige Mönch über den Problemen der Welt schwebt und scheinbar nichts anderes wahrnimmt als die Engel auf seiner Schulter, die auf einer goldenen Harfe zupfen. So stellte ich mir den Shaolin-Tempel vor, bis ich dort ankam und feststellte, dass Mönche mit iPhones die gleichen Hoffnungen, Träume und Ängste haben wie wir anderen auch. Sie übten nur ihre Fähigkeiten, um mit all dem besser zurechtzukommen.

In der spirituellen Welt gibt es viele Geschichten über Gurus mit besonderen Kräften. Die meisten meiner Lehrer waren Schüler dieser Gurus und viele haben erstaunliche Geschichten von dem, was sie zu Füßen ihrer Lehrer erlebt haben ... Wunder könnten wir es nennen. Ich mag diese Geschichten und ich neige dazu, die meisten von ihnen zu glauben. Aber ich habe mich schon vor langem entschieden, dies nicht zur Grundlage meiner Praxis zu machen. Ich wollte nie eine fantastische Geschichte oder einen magischen Glauben als Basis für meine Spiritualität. Es ist einfach zu leicht, dass alles auf diese Weise auseinander fällt - mit einem Skandal oder einer Enthüllung oder einem Eimer voll kalter Realität. Ich habe mich stattdessen dafür entschieden, Lehrer zu finden, mit denen ich mich als Mensch identifiziere und die das Leben auf eine kompetente Weise leben, der ich nacheifern wollte. Kurz gesagt, ich habe die Praxis den Gleichnissen vorgezogen.

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Kernfragen zum Nachdenken: Was halten Sie von der Vorstellung, dass Vorstellungen von Spiritualität uns davon ablenken, das Leben hereinzulassen? Können Sie eine persönliche Geschichte erzählen, in der Sie in einer bescheidenen Praxis Inspiration gefunden haben? Was hilft Ihnen, sich nicht von Gleichnissen ablenken zu lassen und in der Praxis als Fundament für Ihre Spiritualität verwurzelt zu bleiben?

Aus: https://jasongarner.com/spirituality/practice-over-parables/




Seed Questions for Reflection

What do you make of the notion that images of spirituality distract us from letting life in? Can you share a personal story of a time you found inspiration in humble practice? What helps you avoid getting distracted by parables and stay rooted to practice as the foundation for your spirituality?

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13 Past Reflections
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Urvi
Jun 6, 2021
The sentence that resonated witm me the most is, " I chose instead to find teachers who I identify with as people and who live life in a skillful way that I want to emulate, In short, HI chose practice over parables."
JP
May 28, 2021
To me spirituality means relating to life with an open mind and an open heart.It meansfacing life with non-judgmentalawareness. In order to be free from my suffering I need to go through it with compassion. I pay my kind attention to my own suffering without being carried away by distractions. I follow the same way when I relate to someone going through hard times. This is the way we evolve to thrive personally, interpersonally and collectively. Spiritual evolution tales time. Having someone as a model in spiritual journey has been very helpful to me. In my culture such a person is called a guru. I was blessed to have my parents as my gurus. They not only believedin simple and humble living but they lived that way. Mahatma Gandhi also was model for my father and for me. Seeing people living modestly and humbly and learning from them provided a basis for my spiritual evolution. I am very grateful to them. Spiritual evolution is an inner work. Reading books and articles like this onewrit... View full comment
ME
May 25, 2021
My mom was a mystic. That is the soup I grew up in. A one on one with a mystic. When I came to her with a personal reality, a problem or challenge her answer was esoteric. “You must change your state of consciousness or this pattern will keep repeating.”
How does one change ones state of consciousness?
” By meditating. By realizing the world is an allusion. By not buying into the world of mind. By connecting only to the divine.”
She had fallen trap of the spiritual bypass or spiritual senile.
It took me 5 decades to figure this out. That’s how brain washed I was. No wonder I went off and studied shamanism & became an herbalist.
EL
May 25, 2021
Do images of spirituality distract us from letting the present (life) in? I agree that comfortable images can be used to excludethe parts of life we think of as bad. They can also be used to help get through the difficult parts. St. Paul said, "Test everything, hold on to that which is good." That's what I hope that I do with parables.
I'm eighty with chronic health issues. In the hospital recently I was faced with accepting that I have to give up striving NOW, not later, if I expect to stay alive. Parables about the grace freely available from Christ helped me actually get excited about dropping a ten year project.
I'm sad about dropping that project and others, but hopeful too. I found something else to do that doesn't involve striving. I plan to develop a mindfulness practice.
AM
Amy May 25, 2021
Dear Eleanor,
I am a Christian too! Once I learned that Jesus Christ died on a cross to do for me what I could NEVER ("strive enough") do for myself, I found peace. He did it! For you and for me,He did it! It is out of Jesus's death (HIS power), Istrive to live within His plan. I could NEVER (on my own) earn it... never! For God so loved Eleanor and me (the world), He sent His Son. THANKS BE TO oUR DAD Who LIVES in Heaven! Amen.
DD
David Doane May 27, 2021
We die (and live) for one another. No one can find peace for me but me. We are each expressions of God. I believe Jesus believed each of those statements.
DD
May 21, 2021
I often see my thinking or images, be they images of spirituality or whatever, be they created by me or by the other, instead of seeing what is and letting life in. What comes to mind regarding "humble practice" that results in inspiration is efforts to see what is, such as to be in the present, put aside thinking, preconceived notions and created images, and let go of trying to control. When I do that even to a small extent, I find inspiration, surprises, aliveness, intimacy. Such practice is an important part of the foundation of my spirituality. What helps me stay rooted in such practice is the satisfaction I get from it. I like parables. For me, parables aren't distracting and I don't avoid them. Parables aren't about magical beliefs but are fantastic stories containing wisdom and lessons about rightliving. I have learned from parables and they have enhanced my practice. They tend to stick with me and I find myself reflecting on them.
SH
Shalom May 24, 2021
The author says,
"I never wanted a fantastic story or magical belief as the foundation for my spirituality."

but is that not being picky as well !
Any preference is bias !

just a thought
DD
David Doane May 25, 2021
For me, preference can be bias, or preference can be natural inclination. I think bias is judgmental preconceived thinking and conditioning, and natural inclination is nature. Preference can be bias and it can be natural inclination. For example, a preference of chicken dinner instead of fish, or preference of one fragrance over another, or preference of something saltyinstead of something sweet, or preference of this shirt over that one, can be examples of preference based on natural inclination or taste and not bias.
EL
Eleanor May 25, 2021
I was raise Christian, Episcopal version. I have studied other religions and listened to friends of other religions. I like and admire many religions,Nevertheless, I choose to remain Christian. I don't think that''s bias, because I don't try to change anyone's choice to match mine. In my case, the Christian parable led to the practice.
JP
May 21, 2021
As I understand meditation is not avoiding distractions but mindfully facing them, processing them with compassion, courage, and commitment. Meditation is not chasing the shadows of pleasure and fantasies to use the word od Jason Garner "parables",but facing pain and suffering. It means not looking away or seeking distractions. It is by facing clouds of suffering compassionatelythatwe we can see the light clearly. Life gives many opportunities to us for mindfully working on our sufferings. It's a question of turning our face towards sufferings or turning our face away from sufferings. It is easy to turn my face away form all kinds of pain and suffering rather than facing them fairly and squarely. I have used avoidance technique instead of facing them. I have learned from my personal experience that aversion and avoidance do not work for me. I have learned to hear the music though it could be painful. By following thispath I have been able to reduce the noise of music and ... View full comment
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Yasemin K May 25, 2021
I really enjoyed reading this comment. I myself am like Neo from the Matrix dodging bullets when it comes to avoiding pain or uncomfortable feelings. I distract myself with books, movies or nonsense instead of focusing on the present. I am slowly improving on living more intentionally. My goal is to live each moment with intention and presence. As you mentioned above recognizing myself with compassion and love and non-judgement has been essential. I still find myself getting stuck there sometimes but overall have learned to be kinder to myself.

Thank you again.
SA
Sahara May 25, 2021
Sir, your thoughts and reflections were so much for me. I just lost my father a week ago dur to Covid.My family and I are navigating a grievous journey.
Thank you personally for your timely words.Yes, a time for me to make a shift : AVOIDANCE to EMBRACE.