There Are Many Voices Beside Ours

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Hay muchas voces además de la nuestra
--por Ella Cara Deloria

Nosotros [los nativos americanos] sabemos acerca del silencio. No le tenemos miedo. De hecho, para nosotros el silencio es más poderoso que las palabras. Nuestros mayores fueron entrenados en los caminos del silencio y nos transmitieron este conocimiento. Observar, escuchar y luego actuar, nos decían. Ésa era la manera de vivir.

Con [la mayoría de] ustedes, pasa todo lo contrario. Se aprende hablando. Se premia a los niños que más hablan en el colegio. En vuestras fiestas intentáis hablar todos al mismo tiempo. En el trabajo, siempre teneos reuniones en las que todos interrumpen a todos y todos hablan cinco, diez o cien veces. Y a eso lo llamáis "resolver un problema". Cuando estáis en una habitación y hay silencio, os ponéis nerviosos. Tenéis que llenar el espacio con sonidos. Entonces habláis por obligación, incluso antes de saber lo que vais a decir.

A la gente [moderna] le encanta discutir. Ni siquiera permiten que la otra persona termine una frase. Siempre interrumpen. Para nosotros, los indios, esto parece de mala educación o incluso estupidez. Si empiezas a hablar, no voy a interrumpirte. Escucharé. Tal vez deje de escucharte si no me gusta lo que dices, pero no te interrumpiré.

Cuando termines de hablar, tomaré una decisión sobre lo que dijiste, pero no te diré que no estoy de acuerdo a menos que sea importante. De otro modo, me quedaré callada y me iré. Me has dicho todo lo que necesito saber. No hay más que decir. Pero esto no es suficiente para la mayoría de la gente [moderna].

La gente debería considerar sus palabras como semillas. Deberían sembrarlas y luego dejarlas crecer en silencio. Nuestros mayores nos enseñaron que la tierra siempre nos habla, pero debemos guardar silencio para poder escucharla.

Hay muchas voces además de la nuestra. Muchas voces.


Preguntas semilla para la reflexión: ¿Cómo te relacionas con la noción de que hay muchas voces además de la nuestra? ¿Puedes compartir una historia personal de alguna vez en la que estuviste en silencio y pudiste escuchar a la tierra hablar? ¿Qué te ayuda a hacer crecer tus palabras en silencio?


Ella Cara Deloria, también llamada Aŋpétu Wašté Wiŋ, fue educadora, antropóloga, etnógrafa, lingüista y novelista de Yankton Dakota. Grabó la historia oral de los nativos americanos y contribuyó al estudio de las lenguas nativas americanas.
Seed Questions for Reflection

How do you relate to the notion that there are many voices besides ours? Can you share a personal story of a time you were silent and able to hear the earth talking? What helps you grow your words in silence?

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31 Past Reflections
JD
Oct 11, 2023
We have a lot to learn from indigenous tribes. One time I was inside the forest of Mindoro in the Philippines when I came to a peak along the path. Since it was a strenuous hike, it was but natural to take a pause and enjoy the panorama below. Apparently, this was also true for the natives. Not before long a tribesman also arrived at the peak. He was wearing a g-string, carrying a spear / walking stab. He was also a bit surprised to find me there. But he did not say a word. He simply squatted there in silence. After a short interval, another native arrived at the peak. Just like the other man, the 2nd indigenous tribesman was also just wearing a g-string. He was also a bit surprised to encounter a city fellow but did not say anything. So we all sat there in silence for a few minutes. I did not say anything because I do not know their language. They were contented with the silence. After some time, one of the men pulled out a small bamboo container holding tobacco. He rolled a ci... View full comment
JD
Oct 10, 2023
It is not easy to simply listen to others tell their stories. For most people that I know, listening to a story is simply waiting for the next opportunity to butt in and start blurting their own version of a story.

Listening is hard. However I have learned a lot more by simply listening. If I do not agree, I try to say so only if it matters. In most cases I do not think that it was worth discussing. It always depends on the situation and the people involved. But it is not easy to blurt out what's on my mind.

Active intentional listening to understand the one speaking as he or she intends to communicate. What is the message being conveyed?

Observe. Listen. Then Act.

Shalom!
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Elza van Dijk
Sep 29, 2023
Thank you for these very true words
PP
Sep 25, 2023
It is really connected passage with my life. I always got the feedback that I jumped in discussion,I never listen or I always talk rather than keeping silent.I want to improve on this skill to be silent even in the situation where I want to speak.
I realized from some situation or personal/professional experiences I have to keep calm,listen,observe and then speak if required And lack of doing this I saw myself in trouble or people pointed on me for being wrong or interpret wrong and So many times I made the situation worst.Ireally want to improve.Kindly help me to build my skill on listening and be silent.
PP
Sep 25, 2023
It is really connected passage with my life. I always got the feedback that I jumped in discussion,I never listen or I always talk rather than keeping silent.I want to improve on this skill to be silent even in the situation where I want to speak.
I realized from some situation or personal/professional experiences I have to keep calm,listen,observe and then speak if required And lack of doing this I saw myself in trouble or people pointed on me for being wrong or interpret wrong and So many times I made the situation worst.Ireally want to improve.Kindly help me to build my skill on listening and be silent.
PA
paul
Sep 21, 2023
RT
Sep 20, 2023

What a beautiful reflection.
SB
Suchitra Behera
Sep 20, 2023
Loved it. I talk a lot, but I think I need to practice to be still (silence) and listen.
KE
Kennedy
Sep 19, 2023
Silence is not easy but it is quite necessary if have to overcome our communication barrier.
MI
Sep 19, 2023
Is it true….is it necessary….is it kind . If it’s not, silence is golden when interacting with another.
MR
Sep 19, 2023
This narrative has truly struck a chord with me. The way it delved into "silence", which was so insightful and resonated deeply. It's exactly the kind of wisdom I believe we need in times like these. I can't help but appreciate it, and I hope you feel the same way after giving it a listen/read!
JD
Jagannatha Das Oct 10, 2023
Due to the digital medium in which we are currently interacting, I am compelled to write a short reply. Otherwise, my body language would tell you loud and clear, without ny words, that I totally agree with you.
JV
Jose V J
Sep 19, 2023
The New Gen must be taught about silence. The world becomes noisy and kills peace.
JG
Jim Goulet
Sep 19, 2023
Thanks, It's sad that the Me Generation started in the 1980' s and has only gotten worse. We all need to listen.❤️
PH
Pat Hardy
Sep 19, 2023
Very important lesson. When we say something we deem to be very important, it’s painful not to be heard, but words are seeds, so there is hope!!!
AP
Sep 19, 2023
Many thanks for the summarizing the difference between 'Reaction and Response' by providing means of absorbing 'Earth's talk to us'.
AD
Sep 19, 2023
There must be Native American blood in my veins; I appreciate the "kindness," of silence, however, my silence has always disturbed those around. I say "kindness" bc silence.. especially in conversation is loving. Allowing the other to talk when you to listen ...holy. peace
DL
Sep 19, 2023
This is in keeping with the ancient admonition " he who speaks does not know, he who knows does not speak. " Very wise counsel.
MS
Michelle Scott
Sep 19, 2023
Thank you for your wisdom. I have also learned our bodies, made of earth and the elements, & our ancestors will talk to us in quiet ways, if we listen. This, I have learnt from Knowledge Keepers & People here on this continent/land before my ancestors. ✨️
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Val
Sep 19, 2023
A beautiful reminder of the notion of 2 eyes 2 ears one mouth. Thank you for this timely reminder
MR
Sep 19, 2023
This narrative—truly struck a chord with me. The way it delved into "silence", which was so insightful and resonated deeply. It's exactly the kind of wisdom I believe we need in times like these. I can't help but appreciate it, and I hope you feel the same way after giving it a listen/read!
HS
Sep 18, 2023
"I will listen. Maybe I’ll stop listening if I don’t like what you are saying, but I won’t interrupt you." Though I seem to grasp the heart of the matter, it arouses some questions in my mind: 1. Can we listen beyond our likes and dislikes ? 2. Why stop listening ? And if we stop listening, what will my mind do ? Either it would RESIST what is being said or go back to its old habit of mechanically wandering here and there denying itself the valuable opportunity of mindfully living in the Here & Now. 3. After all, when we listen to this chirping of birds or a tree's leaves rustling in the breeze, don't we put aside this whole business of agreeing or disagreeing? 4. And why fear interrupting the speaker if he/she is talking nonsense ? Yes, we have to be utterly polite--while saying, "I am sorry, what you're talking doesn't interest me, so why waste our time ? 5. Last but not least, I humbly suggest not to callously and indifferently 'go away'--without saying 'thank you for sh... View full comment
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Barbara Sep 19, 2023
I have to agree with all the points you have made here, Hareshwar Singh. It seems disrespectful to shut down listening or trying to learn a different perspective.
JP
Jagdish P Dave
Sep 16, 2023
Speech is silver. Silence is golden. I love this wise saying. I hope and wish talkative people know it and put into practice. Sadly, it is mostly revesed. Speech has become golden and silenece has become silver. One of the hall marks of effective communication is lisenting with full and quiet attentiion and then respond. When someone talks, the poor listner is not interested in listening; he is intersted in talking. It is vey fustrating.experience for the listner. There is an ancient wise saying in Sanskit: " Guorostu maunam vakhyanam Shishtastu chinna samshayaha." Student's doubts ae shattered by the silence of the Guru. The Guru teaches by silence. The teacher becomes a role model. The Guru observes the student with full attention and reads the mind of the student. The student learns a lesson of silence by fully paying attention to his Guru. I am a teacher, counselor, and grandfather. I always listen to my students, cleints, and grandchildren by listening emapthetically what... View full comment
PF
Sep 16, 2023
We live in an impatient world. This is asking us to slow down, be open and listen!
DD
Sep 16, 2023
Anpetu Waste Win writes about something very important, the value of being quiet, not talking, listening. A favorite quote of mine by Pascal is "All of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone." There are as many voices as there are creatures, no two exactly the same. Over time I've learned to be silent and listen to the earth, or at least to the expressions of it, such as the birds, animals, insects, the wind, and to the many sounds all express, all of which affect me at a level deeper than talking and thinking, and I love it. What helps me grow my words in silence is the silence and patience that allow space and time for words and what they express to grow, not stepping on the seedlings by talking before they have a chance to develop.
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Barbara Sep 19, 2023
David Doane, I love this reminder to listen to the whispers of the earth. Each creature, each thing of Mother Nature is speaking to us...we need to just stop and listen and thank you them for being there.
DD
David Doane Sep 19, 2023
Thank you. I like your phrase "the whispers of the earth" -- it's important that we listen carefully or we miss what's being whispered.
ST
Sep 16, 2023
I am listening
MA
Sep 16, 2023
I struggle to talk in a way that is valued in the society. I used to judge myself for it wishing I could talk like I see others do. Hearing this is incredibly liberating for me. Thanks
And the words - There are many voices besides ours - are very expansive.