Garden Teaches Us To Travel

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If indifference to nature leads to the machine, the indifference of nature leads to the garden. All culture has the form of gardening: the encouragement of spontaneity in others by way of one's own, the respect for source, and the refusal to convert source into resource. [...]

Inasmuch as gardens do not conclude with a harvest and are not played for a certain outcome, one never arrives anywhere with a garden.

A garden is a place where growth is found. It has its own source of change. One does not bring change to a garden, but comes to a garden prepared for change, and therefore prepared to change. It is possible to deal with growth only out of growth. True parents do not see to it that their children grow in a particular way, according to a preferred pattern or scripted stages, but they see to it that they grow with their children. The character of one's parenting, if it is genuinely dramatic, must be constantly altered from within as the children change from within. So, too, with teaching, or working with, or loving each other.

It is in the garden that we discover what travel truly is. We do not journey to a garden but by way of it.

Genuine travel has no destination. Travelers do not go somewhere, but constantly discover they are somewhere else. Since gardening is a way not of subduing the indifference of nature but of raising one's own spontaneity to respond to the disregarding vagaries and unpredictabilities of nature, we do not look on nature as a sequence of changing scenes but look on ourselves as persons in passage.

Nature does not change; it has no inside or outside. It is therefore not possible to travel through it. All travel is therefore change within the traveler, and it is for that reason that travelers are always somewhere else. To travel is to grow.

Genuine travelers travel not to overcome distance but to discover distance. It is not distance that makes travel necessary, but travel that makes distance possible. Distance is not determined by the measurable length between objects, but by the actual differences between them. The motels around the airports in Chicago and Atlanta are so little different from the motels around the airports of Tokyo and Frankfurt that all essential distances dissolve in likeness. What is truly separated is distinct; it is unlike. "The only true voyage would be not to travel through a hundred different lands with the same pair of eyes, but to see the same land through a hundred different pairs of eyes" (Proust).

A gardener, whose attention is ever on the spontaneities of nature, acquires the gift of seeing differences, looks always for the merest changes in plant growth, or in the composition of the soil, the emerging populations of insects and earthworms. So will gardeners, as parents, see changes of the smallest subtlety in their children, or as teachers see the signs of an increasing skill, and possibly wisdom, in their students. A garden, a family, a classroom-any place of human gathering whatsoever-will offer no end of variations to be observed, each an arrow pointing toward yet more changes. But these observed changes are not theatrically amusing to genuine gardeners; they dramatically open themselves to a renewed future.

So, too, with those who look everywhere for difference, who see the earth as source, who celebrate the genius in others, who are not prepared against but for surprise. "I have traveled far in Concord" (Thoreau).

Seed Questions for Reflection

How do you relate to the notion that genuine travel has no destination? Can you share a personal story of a time when observing variations opened you up to a renewed future? What helps you see the earth as source, celebrate the genius in others, and prepare for surprise?

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Jul 17, 2022
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GU
Jul 13, 2022
I needed repeat readings , and a change in my inner state, to finally understand and appreciate the piece. I usually garden , both the conventional garden / farm and my life with a lot of purposes. Yet , one cannot fail to see with simple eyes the different responses and play of nature. Because i have purposes, there are expectations and , consequently, surprises. I understood James Carse inviting me to be spontaneous and truly natural in my responses to the surprises. Just as Nature is "indifferent", impersonal can i , a part of the same Nature, be more a discoverer than a "customer" ? The real growth is not in my material prosperity but in my capacity to see beyond the superficial and respond appropriately with an evolving inner being. A few weeks ago i visited a farm where a young teenager was volunteering;. His natural demeanour , practical capability, open mind and fellowship charmed me . I learnt he has always been in alternate and home school environments unlike my ki... View full comment
MA
Jul 13, 2022
I love this Proust quote. What a privilege to have travelled enough to see the similarities between different places. And practice pleasure in the everyday world around.
DD
Jul 12, 2022
I think of the essence of travel as having no destination. The best of travel is embracing the process of traveling, meandering rather than hurrying, paying attention to what I'm interested in. Seeing the Grand Canyon was a perception that seemed bigger than my ability to perceive. I felt bigger than me, one with the magnificence I was beholding. The experience enhanced appreciation of oneness that was already happening in me, which fostered further renewal for me. I can plan and have a goal or destination -- that takes effort. My natural inclination is to wander and be goalless which has helped me to see that all is one, that I and earth are one, that earth is an expression of One and I am an expression of earth. In that way I see earth as source. Each of us is a unique expression of One, each with a unique genius, and when I have that perception it helps me celebrate the genius in others. I prepare for surprise by not preparing, by being present and open, by seeing what is a... View full comment
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tim
Jul 12, 2022
I usually don't go in on an article of this nature, of all my life experience, but, this was really worth the time and reminds one what it is all about; thanks Good Growing.
ST
Jul 12, 2022
Plan the journey....enjoy the journey... celebrate arriving at each intermediate stage... and celebrate the harvest/arrival and remember anticipation ( including hope and trust) adds to the pleasure of the travel... free of anxiety on the journey...
JP
Jul 11, 2022
Genuine or true life is not scripted in advance by somebody. It is spoantaneous and growing from the source within. Life is like a garden. It has its own roots. Its own source. It needs nurturing that comes from within. When parents raise their children they naturally provide nurturients to thier childrren. They love them unconditionally. They do not write their children's scripts. As the children grow and learn from their expereinces they write their own scripts, They find their own destination. They become their authentic selves. I have learnt from my experiences that there aree different paths to self-realization. As the Rigveda says, there are different paths to know the Truth. And that is freedom. I learned this truth by being with people with different religious orentations without imposing their belief system on others who are different from their religious orientatons. I have also met people who believe that thieir religious orientatin is superior to others' religious orie... View full comment