Unexpected Strength

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A 10-year-old boy decided to study judo despite the fact that he had lost his left arm in a devastating car accident.

The boy began lessons with an old judo master. The boy was doing well, so he couldn’t understand why, after three months of training the master had taught him only one move. 

The boy finally said, “Teacher, should I be learning more moves?” 

“This is the only move you know, but this is the only move you’ll ever need to know,” the teacher replied.

Not quite understanding, but believing in his teacher, the boy kept training. Several months later, the teacher took the boy to his first tournament. Surprising himself, the boy easily won his first two matches. The third match proved to be more difficult, but after some time, his opponent became impatient and charged; the boy deftly used his one move to win the match. Still amazed by his success, the boy was now in the finals.

This time, his opponent was bigger, stronger, and more experienced. For a while, the boy appeared to be overmatched. Concerned that the boy might get hurt, the referee called a time-out. He was about to stop the match when the teacher intervened and said, “No, let him continue.” The match resumed, the boy's opponent made a critical mistake: he dropped his guard. Instantly, the boy used his move to pin him. The boy had won the match and the tournament. He was the champion. 

On the way home, the boy and his teacher reviewed every move in each and every match. Finally, the boy summoned the courage to ask what was truly on his mind, “Teacher, how did I win the tournament with only one move?”

“You won for two reasons,” the teacher answered. “First, you’ve almost mastered one of the most difficult throws in all of judo. And second, the only known defense for that move is for your opponent to grab your left arm.” The boy’s biggest weakness had become his biggest strength.

Seed Questions for Reflection

Can you think of a time when something you saw as a weakness turned out to be a strength? If you could apply the lesson from this story to your life, what would you do differently? How have other teachers in your life influenced what you see as possible?

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15 Past Reflections
ST
Mar 26, 2025
A lot to ponder in this story. I was seen as overly sensitive and easily cried and had a very hard time accepting any thing I felt was injustice. So, I interpreted that as me being a "weirdo" or something wrong with me. My sensitivity , emotionality, and caring for justness are certainly what shaped me to be the human I am and love. It may have been wonderful to have had a happier childhood and found others that appreciated the qualities that I hid. I eventually was drawn to and chose teachers who demonstrated compassion and self awareness.
DP
Deepika Patel
Mar 25, 2025
A simple story driving home “Practise makes perfect “ yet again.
As we know, this is the truest truth!
This translates into my life in the form of running. I started as a young Mother more so because of the flexibility in terms of time. I could only run when the baby was sleeping. Cut to 26 years ( and counting ), I’m now a seasoned marathoner without even realising how I got here.
JP
Mar 25, 2025
My Reflections: This article has drawn my attention to the importance of the value of seeing objects, situations, people, relationships and above all my own self. There is a wise saying in Sanskrit: Yatha dristihi tatha sristihi: The world appears as we see it. People, objects, situations, relationships and above my own self are perceived according to my inner mind state: with a clear mind state like the clear sky or the cloudy state. We tend to project our inner world onto our world. Our perception creates the outer world. Our mind, our inner vision is the cause of inner freedom or inner bondage. As the Bhagavad Geeta says: Manaha eva manushyanam karanam bandhmokshayho. As I am advancing in age and as I am getting older, my inner world has been getting more free from the inner bondage I myself have created. I have learned the significance of seeing and relating to people clearly, empathetically and compassionately. The first teachers in my life were my parents. My father t... View full comment
PA
Mar 25, 2025
I love the lessons: patience, respect, practice, faith, obedience, ultimate achievement. These teaching stories are powerful
AP
Mar 25, 2025
Brilliant message to leverage even weakness into strength.
CT
Charles Tutt
Mar 25, 2025
Beautiful, touching, inspiring, meaningful, and useful. A good theme upon which to meditate daily.
FI
Mar 25, 2025
Resonates! I struggled in a very challenging marriage for many years. I felt ill equipped for dealing with my husbands metal health challenges and addiction. But I just kept showing up with my authentic self and getting on with developing myself. It drove me to work hard on my own demons and motivated me to be true to myself. When I finally left the marriage I realized I had developed the skills I needed to recreate my life again from nothing and knew what I was in curating mt new life.
DD
Mar 21, 2025
Wonderful story! I've had the experience of something I saw as weakness become a strength. As a child, my learning that people were happier if I was quiet turned me inward, which had negative and positive aspects. The positive of turning inward was finding more of me. Eventually I grew to be louder and more outward and held onto at least some of what I gained in turning inward. If I could do it differently, I would learn at a younger age that my expressing me is an asset and I would learn to turn inward in a different way. I've had some wonderful teachers. From them I learned that I am plenty, that very much is possible, and it's for me to live and make good use of what I am. I'm still working on it.
FI
Fiona Mar 25, 2025
I love ‘I am plenty.’ I have been saying ‘I am enough’ for years, but I think I am now plenty! Better, thanks!
DD
David Doane Mar 27, 2025
Thanks for telling me. Now we are plenty.
AL
Mar 21, 2025
“You won for two reasons,” the teacher answered. “First, you’ve almost mastered one of the most difficult throws in all of judo. And second, the only known defense for that move is for your opponent to grab your left arm.” The boy’s biggest weakness had become his biggest strength....
the importance of simplicity...
and staying simple
:)
VI
Mar 20, 2025
Love the story and the reminder of how our perceived weaknesses can be our greatest strengths. Beautiful!
AM
Amy Mar 20, 2025
Amen!!!!❤️
BS
Mar 20, 2025
What an inspiring story. A beautiful reading to start my day. Teachers have been my heroes. I believe many of my teachers changed the course of my life. The support and kindness of teachers set the stage for my interest in education.