Sit Under The Tree

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One of the most important things that humanity has to learn for its survival is that the choice between self and other, between particularity and universalism, is a fallacy. It is taken as obvious that there is an inverse relationship between particular identity and universal commitments.

The belief goes that the more committed you are to your own tradition and tribe, your particular religious group as a Jew, Christian, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, Sikh, or member of another community, the less able you are to commit to universal values, the less you are willing to not only tolerate but respect the perspectives of others. Therefore, the best way to build a nation, community, society, or world of tolerance and respect is to diminish particular identities, to water down the rich thick identities that have lasted for thousands of years in order to create something new, a shining city on the hill whose walls are made of glass, where there are no colors, where there is total transparency, and no mystery, because we’ve defined all the words, all the terms, all the ideas with perfect precision and perfect uniformity.  

In such a society you are told what to believe, exactly when and where it is appropriate to use certain words, to think certain thoughts. This can take place because we have all agreed implicitly to abide by those norms, those new commandments. The supercessionism of this approach is of course anathema to religious identities. It also ultimately betrays us, deprives us of some of the deepest tools and vessels we’ve been given.

So for example, if I’m really interested in making peace, there are those who would tell me to let go of my Jewish identity or to minimize or hyphenate it, and to place it as the numerator, not the denominator, of my identity, to be a Jewish American, not an American Jew. [...] If I do make that move to a watered down and minimized place for my tradition, I do so at great cost and great peril. The cost is all of the stories and practices that could allow me to actually become a person of peace. I’m not going to become a person of peace, nor will I become a free man, or a whole one. I have a chance of becoming a free person, a person of peace who can contribute to society, when connected deeply to the interrelatedness of all things, through religion.

We are all potential Bodhisattvas. If you don’t meditate under a tree at some point in your life (and that can take many different forms), you’re going to be defined by the culture in which you live. You’re not going to provide a countercultural example, you’re not going to be able to really subvert anything because everything you do can be commodified and commercialized. Everything you do can fit into the basic structure and framework of late capitalist democratic experimentation. If you achieve wisdom, it will become a product, a series of webinars or workshops that you can get for $99 this week only. It’s very difficult to exit that unless you’ve experienced enlightenment, or at least a step on that path, and have really spent enough time to taste a different world, with different assumptions and styles and norms and demands and joys, different sources of laughter, older sources of tears, stories and rituals that extend far beyond you and that link you back to a community that spans many generations and many places on earth. 

I’m not arguing that you should spend your whole life under the tree, because everyone else is waiting, and even if it means that you’re able to achieve only a fraction of enlightenment, a fraction of infinity is still infinity. And even if it means that you can’t share very much, you can just share a little bit, that little bit is worth several universes, because each bit is the crack in the door that points to a different reality, different possibilities. 

Seed Questions for Reflection

What do you make of the notion that deeply connecting with one's own particular identity and tradition could actually facilitate more universal commitments and contribute to becoming a person of peace? Can you share a personal story that illustrates a moment when embracing your cultural or religious identity allowed you to see or act beyond it, fostering a sense of peace or understanding with others? What helps you create space in your life for moments of reflection or meditation, akin to sitting under the tree, to explore new possibilities that transcend the culture of your times?

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Darpan
Jan 7, 2026
Thank you for writing and sharing this passage. It helps to pause and reflect.

The question which comes to my mind now is “What is peace? “
The peace which my mind is able to understand based on the concepts, theories or stories I have heard or the peace which my heart experiences but always fails to articulate it.

And does peace means same to everyone or is it different for everyone.
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K I r a n
Dec 9, 2025
Very powerful article ! Forces you to think and debate regarding the new trend of prioritizing world religion over different age old universal faiths..
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Linda
Dec 2, 2025
Nov. 18, 2025, I heard an Interfaith Friendships general meeting panel discussion of Rev. Cameron Trimble, Imam Jamal Rahman, and Kosen Gregory Snyder on interfaith friendships, the importance of learning more about other faiths to more deeply understand one's own. To see one's own faith in different facets, different perspectives. Respectful and illuminating. And encouraging.
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Archana Deshmukh
Nov 28, 2025
The truth is that we are not what we see or what we appear to be. Everything in this visible world is perishable, and that means my body is also perishable — so it cannot be the real “me.” This naturally brings up the question: Who am I? When we look through the lens of metaphysics or energy, things start becoming much easier to understand. To simplify this, imagine two differently coloured balls placed on a table. If both a living human and a corpse are asked to pick one particular ball, who will be able to do it? We all know the answer. So what is the difference between the two? Something special is present in the living being — something that makes the body active, aware, and functional. These days, we often hear words like soul, spirit, spiritual energy… so the terminology is familiar. But have we ever truly understood or experienced that I, the soul, am not this body, but a separate living entity? It is the soul that energises the human body, that enters the zygote... View full comment
A
Nov 27, 2025
Born an African Methodist Episcopalian but actually Muslim parents who were not allowed to raise us Muslim. Grandparents and Great Grandparents lived, preached and worshipped among the German Mennonite's and Quakers of Pennsylvania. I love the book and movie Life of Pi! I related to the main character's love of God when I read it. Have had the best Jewish teachers, mentors and friends. Buddhism brought me light that Christianity darkened. Finally read/ learned WE are the LIGHT! The spiritual lives within us. Moving meditation/ Healing Qi Gong helped me to not only feel this but be a part of a whole cosmos through Awaken Call 100 Day Qi Gong during the pandemic. Continued with Tai Chi and regular practice of Qi Gong. Diversity and an Open Mind can often fuel your conviction of connectedness. I admit I was afraid to let go, get lost from my heritage but the music still moves me and I appreciate the strength it gave my ancestors for me to exist.
AL
Nov 26, 2025
I think it is not so simple. It is not so much that one must identify with their personal traditions in order to be more connected to the universal. It greatly depends upon what one has learned from one's tradition. If the lessons have been about the universality at the heart of all traditions, then great. If not, the particular becomes a crutch for holding up a weak ego, often in today's world with the expectation that others must validate one's identity. With the intention to learn the deepest lessons that most traditions have at their heart, then maybe one can find the joy in one's own tradition, as well as the joy in others' traditions, for the shared connections through compassion, kindness and generosity.
RM
Nov 26, 2025
One can pour only from a cup that is full, or from a heart full of love. This fullness can arise naturally from our own roots, even if those roots may appear vague or superstitious. My life is a myth that I must explore, and truth emerges from its shadows. If I remain truthful and aligned with my particular identity, it gradually reveals the universality hidden within it. I have tried the opposite and failed miserably, which is why I fully agree with the idea of deeply connecting with my own particular identity — or with our own particular identities. -- I had abandoned my own cultural or religious identity to uphold others’ views, but it turned out to be an expression of my lack of ego strength and diffidence. Outwardly, I supported others’ identities, but deep inside I felt torn apart. With this newfound love for my own particular identity, the veil of particularity is slowly lifting and giving way to universality. I am now able to see the truth in others’ views more... View full comment
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BarbaraS. Nov 30, 2025
Interesting how when you dropped your own religious identity and embraced other's caused you to be unsettled. We do need to explore our own beliefs/identities to then see the commonality of each others and be fully aligned in your own.
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Christine
Nov 25, 2025
I'm Unitarian Universalist. We are a community of churches and fellowships who support spiritual exploration and growth. For more information go to the Unitarian Universalist Association website.
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Kim Bacon
Nov 25, 2025
I’m still learning of this new form of eternity. I will always be learning and moving on evolutionary as well. I have encountered serious losses in my life from childhood all the way at age 73. Most definitely I can inherit fast even defendants fast when I’m conscious enough to let go of the physical reality and make room for everything and everyone.
JT
Nov 25, 2025
Todays awaken sounds like propaganda
MA
Nov 25, 2025
I grew up in a Jewish home, kept kosher, had a bar mitzvah. Later practiced Zen Buddhism, became a Jew-Bu, spent 18 years in a Religious Science church practicing positive thinking. Now I follow the Youtube videos of Sadhguru, Osho and Eckhart Tolle. Ultimately I'm not defined by any religion, practice or path but by the hunger that drives me to keep seeking and awakening. In that way I hope to discover I am the wholeness and peace I'm seeking.
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A Nov 27, 2025
Yes Sadhguru, Osho and Tolle! Born a Christian but actually Muslim parents who were not allowed to raise us Muslim. I love the book and movie Life of Pi! I related to the main character's love of God when I read it. Have had the best Jewish teachers, mentors and friends. Buddhism brought me light that Christianity darkened. Finally read/ learned WE are the LIGHT! The spiritual lives within us. Moving meditation helped me to not only feel this but be a part of a whole cosmos!
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BarbaraS. Nov 30, 2025
I feel the same! I grew up Christian but am drawn to Buddhism and all spirituality.
DD
Nov 23, 2025
I believe we are one, and what I do in my particular identity affects everyone. I believe that whatever good I do for self also does good for others. I realized over the years that following my heart and embracing my truth is important for me and others, and when I do that my doing that facilitates others doing the same, and all that contributes to me and others growing as persons and becoming persons of peace. Religion most meaningfully for me now means to grow in connection with self and others and to become all that I am which contributes to others become all they are. That's my religious identity now, and my living that fosters a sense of peace and understanding. Believing that all this is important helps me create space in my life for times of reflection or meditation which help me transcend today's culture.
FI
Nov 21, 2025
I do better when no political enters into my ‘born into’ religion. The rituals and intent are good, but unfortunately the historic patterns between patriarchy and politics makes it impossible to embrace.
I am left leaning into other tribes, and earth wisdom from other cultures to find ritual and spiritual groundedness in this world, on this planet. And so I borrow, create and contextualize my own envelope that holds me and I write my own values from many sources and my own feeling tone intuition and experience of what God is. Why do I often feel the whole world needs more updated, nature based forms of spiritual communities to heal our bodies and the earth? Maybe because very few tribes have evolved into this era yet that have a regenerative foundation for the planet that will support all life and the life giving energies.
JP
Nov 21, 2025
We live in a world of divisiveness and destruction by blindly adhering to our political, social, ethnic, cultural and religious identities. Such a narrow perspective has created destructive divisiveness. We have created Holy Wars. We need to learn to go beyond such narrow and destructive perspectives and relate to all people as children of God. If we don't we will create Hell instead of Heaven. I am worried and sad to see the world going away from the We to Me attitude and actions. We need more harmony than divisiveness. Great people in the world have crossed the bridge of divisiveness to join heads, hearts and hands to create harmony. In my opinion we all have our differences and we need to learn how to honor our differences regardless of caste, color, wealth, ethnic and religious orientations. It is time for us to move from Me to We. I have learnt to live this wholesome way of living from great teachers like the Dalai Lama, Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr, Thich Nahath... View full comment
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BarbaraS. Nov 25, 2025
I couldn't have expressed this any better, thank you! Yes, we need to absolutely start to look at each other as part of the whole and not cause pain and suffering to others as it hurts ourselves as well. Interconnected in this world. Even if we adhere to a religion but we must also be open to others' religions as well as inclusive and find the commonalities they embody.
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Caro Nov 29, 2025
Thanks to all who’ve commented. I have an essay to write for college about the philosophies of pluralism and your comments have really shaped my thoughts about the need for a holistic future for this planet. Thank you.
RI
Nov 20, 2025
So true. And Pavi and I had the joy of interviewing Ariel Berger. You can learn more about him if you do a search on conversations.org