Embracing Deep Transitions With Wisdom

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Abrazando las transiciones profundas con sabiduría

--por Vanessa Andreotti

Mientras nos encontramos al borde de un final (de especies, ecosistemas, organizaciones y sistemas mismos), la labor de los hospicios consiste en superar el miedo y aceptar con sabiduría las profundas transiciones que se avecinan. Para ser administradores de este tiempo, debemos desarrollar las prácticas y capacidades necesarias para ocuparnos de estos finales, no con urgencia ni control, sino con una especie de quietud que invite al nacimiento de nuevas formas de ser. Los finales no son fracasos; son parte de un ciclo que requiere presencia, reverencia y humildad.

Habernos hiperconcentrado en el crecimiento y la expansión nos ha dejado mal preparad@s para afrontar la muerte (ya sea la muerte de las industrias o de la biosfera), y esta incomodidad ante el dolor nos impide estar plenamente viv@s en el presente. ¿Cómo podemos permitir el desmoronamiento de estructuras obsoletas sin apresurarnos a reconstruirlas demasiado rápido? ¿Cómo podemos dar cabida a lo que está cambiando irreversiblemente sin apresurarnos a salvarlo o arreglarlo?

Imaginar una buena muerte en este contexto es volver a imaginar nuestra relación con los finales, no como fracasos catastróficos o momentos que hay que evitar, sino como procesos naturales que contienen en sí las semillas de la renovación. Una buena muerte nos invita a abandonar la compulsión de controlar o prolongar la vida de cosas que han dejado de cumplir su propósito, ya sean industrias, sistemas o formas de ser. En cambio, se nos pide que acompañemos estos finales con la misma reverencia y cuidado que podríamos ofrecer a un ser querido en sus momentos finales, sabiendo que el final de un ciclo es el comienzo de otro.

Para cultivar capacidades y prácticas de cierre consciente, cuidados paliativos y elaboración de buen compost, debemos dejar atrás una inteligencia de límites estrechos, caracterizada por el pensamiento lineal y de opciones disyuntivas, y formas de rendición de cuentas definidas en términos de optimización con un único objetivo. En cambio, necesitamos una inteligencia de límites amplios que nos permita trabajar con la complejidad, la incertidumbre y la ambigüedad.

Hay mentalidades que necesitan ser alteradas, entre ellas el universalismo y el logocentrismo. De hecho, lo que necesitamos es más una desinversión que una alteración. Necesitamos desinvertir en estas certezas e invertir en nuestras capacidades para la complejidad. Basándonos en la difracción, un concepto acuñado por la física y teórica feminista Karen Barad, nos referimos a ver diferentes capas de un problema. Si difractas la realidad, ves que diferentes personas viven en diferentes realidades y, sin embargo, todas ellas están presentes y en movimiento todo el tiempo. Este es un trabajo que requiere sabiduría, que no es lo mismo que complejidad. La sabiduría es un compromiso con la viabilidad de la materia, manteniendo al mismo tiempo un sentido del misterio y el movimiento del todo existente más allá de nosotros. Es un compromiso diferente, una capacidad diferente. La inteligencia de amplio alcance, combinada con la sabiduría, es el mínimo indispensable que necesitamos para avanzar en el trabajo en el ámbito de los cuidados paliativos y las transiciones profundas.


Preguntas semilla para la reflexión: ¿Qué significa para ti la inteligencia de límites amplios? ¿Puedes compartir una historia personal de una ocasión en la que pudiste apoyar una transición profunda con un cierre consciente? ¿Qué te ayuda a acompañar los finales con reverencia?
Seed Questions for Reflection

What does wide-boundary intelligence mean to you? Can you share a personal story of a time you were able to support a deep transition with conscious closure? What helps you companion endings with reverence?

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12 Past Reflections
HA
Jan 3, 2025
Great comfort is available to us when we are able to keep our faith in the unimaginable intelligence of LIFE. It is a constant practice to remain at ease in the unfolding.
GA
Dec 5, 2024
'Wide boundary intelligence' to me is the Earth itself. Everything in and on Earth is in flux. Changing. Transforming. Everything is at work. Our dear Earth is a great multi-tasker. We are but one part of her. So we must do our part, using our soul, heart and consciousness.

When a relationship ended for me a few years ago, it took me a long long while to come to terms with it. I was ready to let go but there were invisible and unknown parts of me that still latched on. I grieved. I wrote. I prayed. I sent loving thoughts and wishes. All of this helped and healed and I finally grew up, having completely let go.
DD
David Doane Dec 6, 2024
Your phrase "invisible and unknown parts of me that still latched on" caught me. I could relate. I've had times of being surprised by those too -- they were important for me to deal with in a way that I could heal and grow. And I keep finding more.
DM
Deanne Mineau
Dec 4, 2024
I remember sitting at my Father's funeral. He was the one I loved more than anyone. I allowed myself to feel the love that enveloped us deepen, fill me , so that I sensed his essence as part of my flame of life.
DD
David Doane Dec 6, 2024
How fortunate you were to have that great love relationship with your father that is still very much with you.
PA
Dec 3, 2024
A simple yet cosmic hope and faith enables me to embrace both transitions and endings, including the ultimate one.
ST
Dec 3, 2024
Hmmmmm! I do not know. It seems like this author and the other reflectors and most of my circle feel confident that death is not an end. And again, I do not know. "wide boundary intelligence" may be an oxymoron. Intelligence seems to imply that I know something sort of absolutely, not that I recognize some mysterious state of unknowing and accept that.
" I am opening up in sweet surrender to the numinous Love Light of the One".
I am not sure if I have ever had closure with anyone or anything. I am consciously aware that my parents and many other loved ones who have left their bodies are with me in another dimension and I have experienced that realm as angelic with reverence. I attended my parents wedding in heaven.
DD
Dec 1, 2024
Wide-boundary intelligence means to me intelligence with wide boundaries, intelligence that is wide open and beyond conditioning, not narrow, constricted, conditioned. It is letting go of conceptions, accepting not knowing, and being open to what is happening. I've recently been with two friends who were dying and did die within a day or two of my last being with them. Both seemed comfortable in letting go of this life, accepting of death and open to whatever was coming. I've also been with myself and others when going through major life transitions, and the more we accepted what was happening, let go and were open, the easier and more satisfying the process was. What helps me companion ending with reverence is my believing that ending goes with beginning, and ending is a special time of transition and transformation.
SD
Nov 30, 2024
Some are learning to let go... Some are learning to hold fast... Some are learning to love... Some are learning it is possible to allow others to hate and stay in a state of battle withut losing ones own profound peace.
Some are learning to simplify, others to include more. We are all, in and at... our own ....time place and state as well as loving learning and sharing with others.... to varying degrees.
JP
Nov 30, 2024
Life goes on through ups and downs, highs and lows, losses and gains. Birth and death. We need to embrace both realizing they are two parts of the same reality. What is born is going to die and what is dead is going to be born again. They are two sides of the same coin. Getting attached to both continues the cycle of suffering. I know this truth but I am not awake to see it all the time. I go to sleep again. I get blinded and repeat the same cylce. In order to wake up from my sleep of ignornace, I set the alarm of awkening. When I get fully awakened, I see the light of the truth. Such light helps me remain awakened and I start walking again on the wise path.
The word awakening is my mantra. It keeps me awake to walk on the right path.
Namaste!
Jagdis P Dave