We Are All Beggars

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Tod@s somos mendig@s
- por Chaz Howard

Una teología vivida desde la base no ve el mundo a través del cristal del bien y del mal. Esto no es una negación de la existencia del mal, más bien es creer que el mal es algo que hacen las personas. La gente no es mala, solo a veces hace cosas malas. Y todas las cosas malas tienen una fuente: la tierra de donde surgen.
Cuando era seminarista, conocí a una joven poeta llamada Anne Marie que una vez escribió una carta poética que compartió conmigo; "El miedo es el jardín del pecado". Con el tiempo, también he llegado a agregar "daño", porque el corazón herido es a menudo una fuente de gran compasión o gran violencia.
El conocimiento de que aquell@s que nos rodean y que están haciendo mal, lo hacen por una razón, debe permitirnos ver y apreciar su humanidad y su potencial para ser redimid@s.
Es radical creer en el potencial de redención. Una persona que roba tiendas y / o trafica con drogas no es una persona malvada. Quizás fueron las circunstancias de la vida, la salud mental, el miedo, la falta de opciones, la falta de educación lo que la llevó a ese punto de su vida. La desesperanza, la desesperación y la sensación de estar deshumanizad@ pueden llevar a alguien a profundidades que no sabía que tenía.
La humildad y la fuerza de carácter que un@ debe tener para decidirse a mendigar o pedir dinero o comida es algo profundamente ajeno a la mayoría de nosotr@s. Si no fuera lo suficientemente difícil tener que extender la mano y suplicar por las sobras, la experiencia de ser ignorad@ por personas que tienen los medios para cambiar tu vida es desgarradora. Y quienes se detienen a menudo te dan solo unas pocas monedas, nunca te tocan la mano, nunca te miran a los ojos, nunca te preguntan tu nombre. Con el tiempo, para algún@s, esto es demasiado. Su voz se hace más fuerte. Desechan la cortesía y ya no les importa cómo se ven. Y el dolor de la deshumanización y el miedo a morir de hambre, pronto da un fruto amargo.
Ahhh, ahora que el/la mendig@ es "ruidos@ y agresiv@" por fin l@ vemos, solo el tiempo suficiente para sacarl@ del espacio que antes era pacífico.
Una teología de base puede comprender lo que tocar fondo puede hacerle a una persona. No en un sentido condescendiente, sino en uno humanizador, reconociendo que tod@s estamos en proceso. Tod@s somos mendig@s con las manos extendidas, aunque podemos alcanzar cosas diferentes.
Las últimas palabras escritas por el gran reformador Martín Lutero hablan de esto.
“Wir sind bettler. Hoc est verum ". "Todos somos mendigos, esto es cierto".
Preguntas semilla para la reflexión: ¿Cómo te relacionas con la noción de que tod@s somos mendig@s? ¿Puedes compartir una historia personal de alguna vez que te diste cuenta de lo que tocar fondo puede hacerle a una persona? ¿Qué te ayuda a conservar la empatía cuando estás herid@?
Chaz Howard es capellán de UPenn.
Seed Questions for Reflection

How do you relate to the notion that we are all beggars? Can you share a personal story of a time you became aware of what the bottom can do to a person? What helps you retain empathy when hurt?

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13 Past Reflections
GU
Sep 14, 2021
On closer hearing of the piece, i understood the author to imply that any feeling of want in us makes us beggars in a way. It's intriguing enough to explore whether the opposite , a feeling of being in no-want, could be a natural state...A task comes to mind , in the context of interacting with another - when a feeling of lack comes within , be generous and 'give' to the other instead of expecting something.
GU
Sep 14, 2021
"...believe in the potential for redemption." ( Of me and the other )....Yes, that helps. However I wish this inspires me to actually, in-the-moment see the truth of the statement "Fear is the garden of sin" ? as it arises. Fear , and its myriad shades and variants , including hurt, it seems to me, arises from the almost instinctive need to protect "me" . Often Sin follows from this unconscious and , sometimes deliberate , psychological state In me. This seeing will create the space for a more appropriate response
JA
Sep 14, 2021
This reflection brought back to my mind a recent incident when I gave money to a panhandler. After I handed him the money I noticed I could feel the warmth of his hand where he had touched mine. I contemplated on that for some time after. This reflection allowed me to realize the healing I receivedin that touch. I am led to believe the next time, I will desire to hold a hand a bit firmer and longer.
AM
Amy Sep 14, 2021
That's God! (I've experienced the same ... It's God!)
PA
Sep 14, 2021
Henri Nouwen wrote often of the notion of "wounded healers", those who knowing the bottom chose to be healing presence rather than respond in anger and violence.
KP
Sep 14, 2021
Indeed we are all beggars, each one of us in some way at some time in our lives has done something out of fear or our needs not being met or wanting to belong. When we pause and ask ourselves, "what might have happened to this person to create the action taken?" We can sit in compassion rather than judgment. ♡ Since 2008 I've shared Hugs, conversations and bought lunches with homeless. Every person I met had/has a story of loss. Every person when hugged said statements like, "thank you for seeing me. " "I haven't been touched in twenty years." Imagine what that would be like.
Before we judge or see someone as "bad" again, let us pause and ask, "what might have happened to provike this particular action?"
Hugs from my heart to yours,
Kristin
AN
Sep 14, 2021
I do believe that there are evil people indeed. People who purposefully kill their children, rape and hurt the innocent, cruelly torture animals....these to me are some examples of wothless individuals and should not be given excuses for their horrible acts of torture and death. Sorry not sorry for feeling this way. I won't find excuses for the Nazis who imprisoned my father in Auschwitz and murdered his sister and mother. These are not nice people who do bad things but evil worthless scum. No wonder our country is weakened by such stupid thoughts. I have zero compassion for evil assholes.
DD
Sep 10, 2021
Being beggars is one way we deal with not having and not being able to get, or think we can't get, what we need or want. At such times, a person is likely feeling powerless and/or desperate. The person who is drowning, one way or another, may beg for help. He or she needs a lifesaver. When the person is safely alive is the time to learn to swim. When starving, it may be life saving to be given a fish, and then learn to fish. When being beggars, we try to get what we need or want from outside. Be a beggar only briefly. When I dropped out of a career path that was important to me, I felt at the bottom, thoroughly lost. Others helped me to not drown. The greatest gift I received and learned was to re-empower. I learned that what I needed was in me, not outside of me. Experiencing a bottom still helps me retain what I went through and what I learned and retain empathy when I or another is hurting.
NK
Sep 10, 2021
Lessons from a begging bowl Tribute to my Teachers. As I am continually learning the lesson of Sharanagati(surrender), I give everything over to my Master's/Teacher's/God's hand. Sharanagati literally means to stop fighting. Control is resistance. With acceptance we stop fighting with what is happening and instead completely accept what is present/presented. Sharanagati helps open our heart and mind to what is happening and learn from it. It is a deep faith that everything is as it should be - with or without my begging or helping hand. From humility to hold the begging bowl, to limiting expectations and yet approach with faith and confidence that the bowl shall be filled with what is meant to be is an act of Sharanagati or surrender. I have learned that control comes from a place of fear, and acceptance comes from a place of gratitude. When we can open ourselves to trust that everything is going to be okay no matter what comes into our bowl, then we release the feeling o... View full comment
JP
Sep 10, 2021
There have been times when I have been deeply hurt. And there have been times in my life when I have hurt others too. Such experiences have made me realize that we all have the potential to hurtourselves and hurt others close to us. It does not mean we are bad or evil. We do bad or evil things. When I relate to hurt in this sense I feel empathy for me and for others. Such empathic understanding of my own wrongdoings helps me heal my wounds and the wounds I have created to others.

Realizing and accepting the fact that we are human beings prone to doing wrong things and making mistakes. We are not perfect.I hold my wrongdoing hand with empathy and compassion. Being empathic and compassionate to me helps me for my self-redemption and also redemption for the otherperson.
Self-awareness is the guiding light to me and it helps me evolve and grow in the realm of goodness, kindness, love and compassion.
Namste!
JagdishP Dave
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a Sep 18, 2021
I love!
R
Sep 9, 2021
It's a hard hitting passage. Precisely because there is so much truth to what is being said. Feel sadness and a sense of dejection. Will sit with it to see what emerges.
VE
Venkhat Sep 14, 2021
There is a story that a beggar managed to clandestinely stand near the window of the Great Emperor, Akbar, and it was early morning prayer time. To the beggar's surprise, he heard Akbar's prayers and it was no different from his. Akbar was also begging God for things he lacked. So true all of us are beggars