Abandon Only What Is Not Yours

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Abandona solo lo que no es tuyo
--por Shaila Catherine

Los sabios comprenden la importancia de dejar ir, incluso dejar ir las cosas por las que nos esforzamos y logramos. El entrenamiento meditativo se trata más de dejar ir que de alcanzar niveles de absorción. La vida espiritual te invita a renunciar a todo lo que te ata, ya sean tus preciadas fantasías, actitudes destructivas, suposiciones, opiniones o amados roles, creencias e ideales.

"Si no quieres sufrir, no te aferres" podría resumir el objetivo principal de todas las instrucciones del Buda. Pero si no puedes seguir esa simple instrucción por completo y necesitas (como muchos de nosotros lo hacemos) enfoques más complejos que te ayuden o te mantengan ocupado hasta que finalmente te canses de aferrarte, generaciones de practicantes han ideado una amplia gama de herramientas de meditación.


Y, sin embargo, si en algún momento no estás seguro de qué hacer en esta práctica, simplemente déjalo.

No es necesariamente una tarea más a realizar. Es, simplemente, lo que ocurre cuando no te estás aferrando: una expresión directa de sabiduría que surge en un momento de experiencia. La sabiduría simple nos dice: "Cuando te arrastran, suelta la correa". Cuando sientes el dolor de aferrarte y entiendes el agarre como la causa de tu sufrimiento, la solución se vuelve obvia.

Algunas personas temen que dejar ir podría disminuir la calidad de sus vidas, salud, habilidades, logros o propiedad personal. A esto, el Buda dijo: "Lo que no sea tuyo, abandónalo; cuando lo hayas abandonado, eso te llevará a tu bienestar y felicidad". Esto invita a una reflexión profunda sobre lo que uno puede reclamar auténticamente como propio. A medida que discernimos el carácter impermanente y condicionado de todos los procesos materiales y mentales, eliminamos las percepciones, la experiencia sensorial y las cosas materiales como campos de posesión. En la superficie, parece que se nos pide que renunciemos a todo, pero al mismo tiempo nos damos cuenta de que en realidad no poseemos nada y, en consecuencia, no hay nada a lo que realmente se pueda renunciar. El gran abandono es abandonar el concepto de propiedad.

Dejar ir en meditación es la renuncia que no implica pérdida. Reconocer la impermanencia conduce a la realización de la naturaleza pura e ininteligible de las cosas. Conociendo este hecho básico de las cosas, uno no tiene nada que temer. Y el deleite extraordinario que surge con la realización supera todos los placeres temporales, suavizando cualquier miedo residual que pueda querer comprender nuevamente lo que nunca se puede poseer.


Preguntas semilla para la reflexión: ¿Qué significa para ti 'renuncia que no implica pérdida'? ¿Puedes compartir una historia personal de un momento en que soltaste la correa? ¿Qué te ayuda a reconocer la impermanencia de las cosas en tu vida diaria?


Shaila Catherine es profesora de meditación, con especial experiencia en estados profundos de absorción. El extracto anterior es de su libro, Centrad@ y sin miedo.
Seed Questions for Reflection

What does 'relinquishment that involves no loss' mean to you? Can you share a personal story of a time you let go of the leash? What helps you recognize the impermanence of things in your daily life?

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Barbara
Sep 2, 2019
Please give examples of form that involves no loss. Please give us steps and ways to do this. I can easily give away living space furniture at times and clothes I no longer need, but I do like having things that please me, make me comfortable, allow me to meet in community. So how do we relinquish the form of things that we need to thrive and live with others, work with others? Thank you, Barbara
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Aarya Pandya
Aug 29, 2019
I am just 17 years old, and i am supposed to work hard for building a future that will help me be independent and provide me with a good standard of living. I am often feared on how will i do it, because i have to constantly be in that realm of achieving and wanting more and more to claim a post/degree! This stresses me very much. How do i give out, and let go of the greed for my future? Please do reply.
SU
Aug 27, 2019
It's detachment from the Maya, the illusory and impermanent world.The moment I think my children are infact the children of God and not mine, I am relieved with a feeling of liberation. The reality that 'Uncertainty is the only certainty in life' makes the daily life easier and friendly.
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Lesli Hill
Aug 27, 2019
I’ve read every essay on this site over the past five years. They inspire me to take time to reflect on how I am sitting in the world. I suffered for ten years because of a failed medical implant. I had excruciating physical pain but that pales in comparison to my emotional suffering. A year ago medical doctors at Mayo were able to bring and end to that physical pain. Yet, I struggle with the emotional impact of that experience. As I read today’s post I realized that we are biologically equipped for physical survival but not alwaysequipped to be a survivor. They are vastly different constructs. One occurs naturally, the other requires intentional self reflection,forgiveness and a profound letting go I must let go of the suffering that defined me for a decade to be free of the fear of more suffering right around the corner. Thank you for this post.
LA
Aug 27, 2019
Letting go of the hurtful incidents is a major tumbling block in attaining peace. When we feel that we’ve overcome The wrongs done to us, suddenly we are overwhelmed by the emotions of sadness,anger,”why me” etc. out of the blue we are attacked. Can you please explain this phenomenon? I’d also like to know how to do let go meditation.
DD
Aug 24, 2019
Not only is it an illusion that I possess things, it is an illusion that there are things to possess. So, for me to relinquish what I really don't have and really doesn't exist is relinquishment that involves no loss. In the apparent world, I behave as though I possess things, but in reality I don't possess anything. I live in the apparent but am not of it. I don't know when I stopped being of the apparent, that is, let go of the leash -- I know it was a long time ago, and it's an awareness that has become more clear over the years. What helps me recognize the impermanence of things in my daily life is implied in the question itself, that is, "things in my daily life" are impermanent, as are all things, be they apparent for a moment, a day, a lifetime, or a millenium. Awareness of impermanence is deeply ingrained in me, and the awareness is comforting.
JP
Aug 23, 2019
We all have different kinds of suffering. I have sufferedand all the people I know have suffered. This is first Noble Truth. The Second Noble Truth is making an inquiry about the cause of suffering. The Third Noble Truth is to seek the way of ending the suffering. And the Fourth Noble Truth is to follow that way consistently. I love these words of wisdom expressed by Gautama Buddha. I have learned that I have caused my suffering by holding on the craving that causes suffering to me and to people close o me. When I let go of the leash that I myself have created i become free from my self created suffering. Following this path of letting go involves no loss. It frees me from my suffering and that is big gain. The Buddha's words of wisdom, "If you do not want to suffer don't cling." and"Whatever is not yours, abandon it; when you have abandoned it, that will lead you to your welfare and happiness." These words of wisdom have helped me to awake and be aware of ... View full comment