Be Love Now

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अभी प्रेम बनो

कल्पना कीजिए की आप जिसे जानते ही नहीं उससे आपको अधिक प्रेम मिल रहा है| आप जब बच्चे थे तब आपके माँ और पापा से मिले हुए प्रेम से भी अधिक प्रेम - या आपको सबसे ज्यादा चाहने वाले से भी अधिक प्रेम आपको मिल रहा है| और आपको प्रेम देने वाला आपसे कुछ नहीं चाहता | वह आपसे किसी भी तरह की व्यक्तिगत अपेक्षा नहीं रखता, वह बस आपको पूर्ण रूप से चाहता है|

आप जैसे हो वेसे ही आपको प्रेम दिया जा रहा है| उस प्रेम को लेने के लिए आपको कुछ करने की जरुरत नहीं है| आपकी खामिया, आपके आत्म सन्मान की कमी, शारीरिक, आर्थिक या सामाजिक स्थिति - ये कुछ भी मायने नहीं रखता | आपको मिलने वाला प्रेम कोई आपसे छीन नहीं सकता, वह हमेशा आपके साथ रहेगा|

कल्पना कीजिए की इस प्रेम में रहना वह एक गर्म स्नान जैसा है जिसमे आप आराम करते हो और चारो और से आपके मन के हर एक आन्दोलन को समर्थन मिल रहा है| हर विचार और भावना उसमे भीग चुके है| आप पुरी तरह से प्रेम में डूबा हुआ महसूस करते हो|

यह प्रेम असल में आप ही का एक हिस्सा है| वह हमेशा आपमें बहता है| यह ब्रह्माण्ड की एक बनावट है - उस काले पदार्थ की तरह जो सबको जोड़े रखता है| जब आप उस बहाव में बहेते हो तब आप उसे अपने दिल से महसूस करते हो - आपके शारीरिक या भावनात्मक दिल से नहीं लेकिन आपके आध्यात्मिक दिल से| आपके सीने की वह जगह जो आप "में हु" बोलते वक्त निर्देशित करते हो|

यह आपका गहरा दिल है, आपका सहज दिल| ये वह जगह है जहा आपका उच्च मन, शुद्ध जागरूकता, सूक्ष्म भावनाए और आपके आत्मा की पहचान सब एक जगह इकठ्ठे होते है और आप इस विश्व से जुड़ते हो| जहा पर उपस्थिति और सच्चाई पाए जाते है|

बिना शर्त का प्रेम वास्तव में हम सब के अन्दर मोजूद है| यह हमारे भीतर का एक हिस्सा है| यह कोई सक्रिय भावना नहीं है| यह ऐसा नहीं है की "में तुमसे प्रेम करता हु" इस या उस कारण से या में तुमसे प्रेम करता हु अगर तुम मुझे प्रेम करो - यह तो बिना किसी वजह का प्रेम है| बिना किसी विषय का प्रेम| यह सिर्फ प्रेम में बेठने जैसा है - जहा बैठते समय खुर्शी, कमरा, सब कुछ एक दुसरे में विलीन हो जाते है| हर वक्त सोचता रहता मन प्यार में बुज़ जाता है|

अगर में अपने अन्दर की उस जगह पर जाऊ जहा प्रेम बसा हुआ है, अगर आप अपने मन की उस जगह पर जाए जहा प्रेम बसा हुआ है, तो हम दोनों मिलकर खुद एक प्रेम बनते है| फिर हम दोनों एक सच्चे प्रेम में होते है, एक स्थिति जहा पर बस हम प्रेम में रहेते है| वही एकता का दरवाज़ा है|

राम दास - "अभी प्रेम बनो" के कुछ अंश

आत्म निरिक्षण के लिए प्रश्न

आपके लिए प्रेम में वैचारिक मन को बंध करने का मतलब क्या है? क्या आप एक व्यक्तिगत अनुभव बता सकते है जब आप प्रेम की स्थिति में थे? हम अपने आपको प्रेम बनाने के लिए कैसे विकसित कर सकते है?
Seed Questions for Reflection

What does extinguishing the thinking mind in love mean to you? Can you share a personal experience of a time when you were in the state of being love? How can we develop ourselves to be love?

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GE
Aug 6, 2013
 A few months ago I experienced the deepest feeling of love I can remember ever feeling during an early morning dream. It was blissful, and fortunately lingered for several hours after I awoke. Was it Unconditional Love, or the Love that we experience in the Spirit plane? I can not say, but it felt as good as any Love I could hope for.  I have just heard the best description of this Pure Love of the Spirit world in an audio book by Anita Moorjani, "Dying to be Me." It descbes her near-death experience and her miraculous return to health. From what I have understood from her experience is that we, and Everything else, are all One- Love in the plane (or plain) that is not the physical one, but we incarnate to experience that which can not be experienced "out of body."  So while on this Earth we feel the gamut of emotions, from fear and hate to love and bliss, which is the purpose for our incarnation, yet, as we can not remember who we "really" are, we are often searc... View full comment
NA
navinsata Aug 11, 2013

 unconditional love is our true nature,we may call it divine love,we can feel that in every heart beats and in silence,words can not describe ,each one of us can experience it.this love is sourceof eternal happiness,love eliminates all the differences ,if we call it energy then its infinite ,its foundation of our spiritual living,more we give more we have .always love navinchandra

J
j Aug 11, 2013

 amen

MI
Aug 6, 2013

 Ram Dass.....one of my favorites.  Blessed be.

A
Aug 6, 2013

 Living within God's presence, we come to "this place" Ram speaks of.  One in Spirit . . . Heaven and earth's truest/ultimate love form and connection!  
Thank you, Ram Dass for your words.
A true blessing this day!
Love
 

CR
Aug 6, 2013
 What a beautiful reminder of what we are, at the core. This whole passage seems itself to be a practice, a meditation, a way. When we all can remember this, wars will end, crimes will cease, and even laws and lawyers will no longer be needed. Isn't all that we desire, and try to get from others—is it not all ultimately about this deep longing for what we already are being given—and always have been? What is it in me, in all of us, that forgets this? Why, when something within us is so all-pervasive and powerful and true, do I live with little or no awareness of this beauty? Is there also some part of our fundamental nature that forgets the gift that is always given? And, if that forgetfulness is also divine, is that also sacred, and worth revering? So that the dramas of forgetfulness—the torn relationships and the wars, small and enormous—play themselves out? Thank you for posting this today. Thank you, Ram Dass, for this reminder so beautiful it should b... View full comment
KI
Kiki
Aug 5, 2013

 This message could not have come at a better time.  Since I woke up my mind has been busy with chatter that is not constructive for me or anyone else.  I would really love to learn how to extinguish my thinking mind.  For me I can relate with the state of love and not thinking, just being and accepting.  when it happens it is often triggered by some positive experience, like right now  I can sense the change in the feeling from anger and irritation and a lot of conversations to calm and appreciation.  Thank you for this gift and the awareness it has brought to me.

TH
Aug 4, 2013

This passage starts with the word 'imagine' which makes me wonder whether that state of being cannot be somewhat self-induced? The author's approach is not unlike that of sophrology:  taking hold of one's imagination to create a serene climate within. Using the thinking mind to induce a certain state of being. And this is best done when relaxing and sitting quietly.  I am not saying that this is wrong but I wonder if a more direct way is not to deliberately let go of the thinking mind  as one comment suggested. This means accepting being vulnerable in relationship, a very difficult thing to do if one tends to be headstrong. I think this willingness is an expression of love. It creates space for all to flower.  

TH
Aug 4, 2013

I am clearer after reading this passage from Ram Dass as to the reality that lies beyond the words:'unconditional love'. Such sets of words may sometimes end up sounding like mere incantations, something detached from daily living or somewhat reserved to a few very saintly people. This reading reminds me that such love is not an abstraction and that I have already met its living expression although I may not have recognized it a such.
This passage is very dense with meaning, very accurate in its wording and I feel I may need to spend further time on it before I can fully digest it.

 

CP
Conrad Pritscher
Aug 3, 2013
 Truly excellent writing. I often feel like I am in my head but I know it is more than that.  His description of that unity of mind, heart and everything and everyone fits where I am moving toward..  I don't experience that often but as I do a kind act, that  is something like I experience heaven at that present moment.  We can't choose our parents, and I believe the love I received from my mother in particular was so fantastic that I am unconsciously imbued with it at this moment..  Extinguishing the thinking to me means that the thought of love is different from love and some thinking can interfere with loving  Being kind to oneself and others is love.  Being peaceful in the present moment is love. When  I can feel, think, etc .in an openly aware integrated manner, I am more at one with everyone and everything.  The way to develop ourselves to be love is to notice what is happening in the present moment/ being presently aware. &... View full comment
EL
Aug 3, 2013
Ram Dass… Yep – The imperfections are the perfections of the extension to the man: Love, I agree with you Ram Dass – Be Love Now… Yes..  I think Love is learning and once you lovel-earn, no matter what, you cannot un-love, because even the ‘dislike’ after love, is the love that you remember, so extinguishing the mind may only be a phrase, but the mind lives in memory, hmm it’s all remnants from love – love, or whatever fuels the thought to think and remember.. All I know is I try to smile, be true and be love, I don’t always hit the mark, but as I age, I am more real love, to develop love, true love I think is to just grow and allow everything to come ones life, without experience there is no comparison in anything in life, so experience and live, cry, feel laugh express and try to extinguish love, for love will come in and warm the heart in everything that was lived anyway, even the bad. Love that’s the path I like be... View full comment
DD
Aug 2, 2013
To me, " extinguishing the thinking mind in love" means to lay thinking to rest, give it a break, have it not be primary, not be in charge, be in the background, and even be forgotten, and simply be and be one with all that is.  There are brief  times when I have such a sense, and it feels peaceful, special, and even intimate.  I believe our oneness is love and during times when I have a sense of oneness I believe and sense that I am in this love -- but I don't feel loved.  I believe what Ram Dass says, that unconditional love exists in each of us, in our deep inner being, our undergirding, and connects us.  I believe, as I think Thich Nhat Hanh says, that we are interconnected and interdependent, interbeing in interisness.  And I believe and sense that being in that awareness and state of oneness is being in the state of love -- but I don't experience it as my being loved -- perhaps I simply haven't gotten there yet.  I believe that I and we can dev... View full comment
KP
Aug 2, 2013

To me extinguishing the thinking mind equals Listening to your heart. Deeply listening. Letting go of the chatter, the noise in one's head that sometimes blocks the LOVE in the Heart. I have felt this love more than I can express. It washes over and it is like a state of bliss. It permeates EVERY part of you. It extends outward and inward at the same time. I believe we can develop this more by going into our hearts more and not being in our heads. Our heart feels this naturally, but sometimes our heads talk us out of it. Wishing all of you to feel this kind of LOVE, it is Beautiful. and Possible. HUG from my heart to yours.

SM
Sibananda Mishra Aug 5, 2013

Does it call for making any conscious effort to feel 'love'? If the answer is 'yes', it could only make all wonder endlessly about what is 'love'. 'Spontaneity' is the only process of carrying the feeling of or being in 'love'. How does anything become spontaneous?? Perhaps it is inexplicable! Perhaps, the only thing that can be said is that one needs to be in a 'trance' and then go beyond, all effortlessly to actually sink into 'love' or to have love diffuse in us.

NA
Nauman Abbasi Aug 12, 2013

 What i think upon it , I got a nice words : There is a Love which begins in the head, goes to the heart and grows slowly; It asks less than it gives ; lasting till death ; there is another love which Blots out Wisdom , it is sweet with the sweetness of love and bitter with the bitterness of death ; lasting for an hour; but it is the worth having lived whole life for that hour.