Connection makes me feel alive - whether it's connecting with people, nature or my inner self. I am moved by a sense of connection and look for it in all I do.
There are many such moments. Some of the most pivotal were growing up in a heavily working-class environment as the only person of color, becoming a monastic in my teens and immersing myself in eight years of practice and service.
Many years ago, as a monk, a group of volunteers went to a Rainbow Gathering in the heart of a national forest in Tennessee. We were there for the primary purpose of cooking and feeding the many at the gather for free. Very soon the rest of the team disappeared and for the following three days I was left to cook for hundreds. One day, after cooking and serving out the food, just as I was cleaning up, a small, frail, young lady came out of the forest asking for food. She explained that she had been sick and had not eaten in three days. Feeling heartbroken that I had no food left after hearing her story and observing her condition, I frantically looking around for anything I could find to feed her I discovered an orange. I peeled it and handed it to her. She smiled and even though starving, broken the orange in half, extended her hand towards me and said, "Would you like some?" It's an act of kindness that will be forever held deeply in my heart and mind.
Climb a Himalayan mountain!
Always seek service.