The sun (winter memories of Scandinavia), nature (like the Fjords of Norway), beauty (looking at the Trevi fountain in Roma), emotions (looking at a movie from Jacques Audiard), an act of kindness (see further bellow), deep empathy (Ill explain), outdoor sport like biking and skiing, the Christmas cake of my mum, love (seeing people kissing in Paris), the smile of Tania, feeling useful (youll tell me after the talk) and life in general. I love meeting strangers on the streets and connecting with them by asking: "Hello I am Philippe, I do a positive project about people's dreams, because people are good and dreams are positive and meaningful. Can I ask you for a dream?". Then comes this moment when people look into my eyes :)
Two moments in my case: The 1st one was in a change management class. I was ten years in my engineering career and life, a quite successful one. We were looking at a video, and I suddenly started tearing, I was not expecting it. It was like all this sensitivity I had tried to control for years just found its way out. And I am trying to never let it back in. The 2nd moment is meeting a Chinese American woman named Tania in the elevator of my building in Bangkok Thailand. We are now husband and wife. I was on my way to move to India for work and I cancelled the move (making my boss unhappy) to stay with her. After two years in Thailand and some time in Europe, we now live in San Francisco. I now have a loving Chinese American family in law. Tania is encouraging me to be curious, take some risks and be vulnerable. My life turned unpredictable and great.
I've been blessed by receiving several beautiful acts of kindness but one highlight is recent: I was in the panhandle with my bicycle out of a meditation class when I received an unexpected email. It was 2 very good friends asking my wife and I if we could accept to be the guardians of their young baby daughter in case anything happened to them because they thought we would be wonderful parents. In just a few words, our friends were in some way giving the most precious thing they had. It was a big shock, like receiving a bomb of trust and love. I guess trust and love must be deserved, but it is one of the most incredible thing to be given.
Collect one million dreams.
We are different and much more similar than we think we are.