The Surprising Truth of Sufficiency

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We each have the choice in any setting to step back and let go of the mind-set of scarcity. Once we let go of scarcity, we discover the surprising truth of sufficiency. By sufficiency, I don’t mean a quantity of anything. Sufficiency isn’t two steps up from poverty or one step short of abundance. It isn’t a measure of barely enough or more than enough. Sufficiency isn’t an amount at all. It is an experience, a context we generate, a declaration, a knowing that there is enough, and that we are enough.

In our relationship with money, it is using money in a way that expresses our integrity; using it in a way that expresses value rather than determines value. Sufficiency is not a message about simplicity or about cutting back and lowering expectations. Sufficiency doesn’t mean we shouldn’t strive or aspire. Sufficiency is an act of generating, distinguishing, making known to ourselves the power and presence of our existing resources, and our inner resrouces. Sufficiency is a context we bring forth from within that reminds us that if we look around us and within ourselves, we will find what we need. There is always enough. [...]

I am not suggesting that there is ample water in the desert or food for the beggards in Bombay. I am saying that even in the presence of genuine scarcity of external resources, the desire and capacity for self-sufficiency are innate and enough to meet the challenges we face. It is precisely when we turn our attentions to these inner resources – in fact, only when we do that – that we can begin to see more clearly the sufficiency in us and available to us, and we can begin to generate effective, sustainable responses to whatever limitations of resources confront us. When we let go of the chase for more, and consciously examine and experience the resources we already have, we discover our resources are deeper than we knew or imagined. In the nourishment of our attention, our assets expand and grow.

--Lynne Twist, in Soul of Money

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LI
Oct 15, 2022
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US
Aug 3, 2021
In the nourishment of our attention, our assets expand and grow. This is so profound. It brings an expansion of the inner resources in being present.
MI
Jun 2, 2020
Absolutely beautifully written & explored!
What resonates with me most is thatONLYWHENwe turn our attention to our INNER resources, then can we see clearly and even begin to produce effective measures to confront our limitations.
Worth pondering over again and again!
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Nova ledesma
Mar 23, 2020
Sufficiency is the key if we look around us and within ourselves, we will find what we need. There will always be enough ): but weconsciously examine the things we already have.

Also,I know that Iam powered by love,more than enough, I havelearned to thank how grateful I am.
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Terry Patten
Nov 26, 2018
My nervous system evolved across hundreds of thousands of years of living off the land with my tribe, so I am always subtly aware of others and my relationship with them, and when my attention goes to the play of power and influence and status among us, I might notice the ways that others sometimes seem more sufficient than me, or less. And then sufficiency seems like a quantity, unevenly distributed, and I notice that my life context bestows no real security, especially in this age. Which makes it easy to forgive the anxiety that cognizes insufficiency. And there, facing everything that makes me humble, I realize that I am given the gift of this day, exactly as it is, and exactly as I am. And my heart fills, recognizing the imperfect perfection of the sometimes glorious, sometimes heartbreaking, sometimes poignant, sometimes very humble opportunities my life is presenting me, opportunities to "write my name in the book of life", inscribing it with my best possible expression of my ch... View full comment
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RusselSalinas
Nov 15, 2018

 Well, we often find a difficulties to take a decision between two good deals. We need our beloved ones to share and give suggestions to our problems.

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Bindi
Nov 20, 2017

 I am actually grateful for this suficiency challenge because it has made me think the sufficiency is not just in terms of what one has in tangible terms. Now I am thinking that I still want and search for more knowledge, hence the knowledge I have be it spiritual or other, is still not enough for me. Secondly, good health comes to mind as I feel I do not have enough of it. 
Also, time will be of limited resource to everyone, however we all know that time is a same constant for everyone, hence it's what we perceive of it, how we make good use of it because by recognising that our time is limited in terms of spiritual development, we will strive to make good use of it.

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Roseann Russo
Nov 14, 2017

 Whether I have enough knowledge or not, I have learned that curiosity and determination go a long way in finding out what I need to know for myself and for others.

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Rob Morris
Nov 4, 2016

Reminds me of lessons from my parents when we were growing up: Money doesn't buy happiness, material possessions don't satiate appetites for more, people matter, and the whole is greater than the sum of the parts.

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Pradnya Dhargave
Jul 21, 2016

I am grateful that i have good parental support , inspiration from my brothers and family friends, caring husband, loving children, I have a good job, I have got enough to educate and upgrade my knowledge, I have enough confidence, strength to fight for injustice, too much love to give. I strongly believe that i m a blessed personality to help the mankind. Its now time for me to give back to the society.

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Dorothy
Jun 21, 2016
 I have good friends and family. I love and am loved genuinely and fully. I have much time since I became disabled. I can fill this with my music, my beading and soap making, gardening. And I choose when to do these things. The time is mine and I love that not being restricted by work schedules. Classes are there online for free from philosophical to spiritual to the global, climate change and paleo classes I am loving this summer. I have internet time and so I can talk and chat with friends, family and friends I have never met in person but have chatted up for years and so, consider close. I volunteer recycling in my community and so feel whole and involved in a positive way socially. my ssdi is small but pays the bills and gets me month to month and so I may not travel n such but I am comfy. And again I can get places Internet wise.  I feel whole and much satisfied overall. I feel quite satisfied with being able to fulfill my needs and many wishes right now. And enjoy... View full comment
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Vijay Kumar
May 31, 2016

 Wonderful

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Karen
Apr 12, 2016

 I have enough love inside me.  I am thankful for how much love I feel.  I know that I am powered by love.  My love is joy!  I am filled with love.  I is like a little nuclear furnace inside of me, burning steadily, and blazing up when ever I need it.  

RG
Dec 1, 2015

 
I am sufficient within mySelf. I trust that all is well in my life and I have sufficient money resources to live, revive and thrive. I have the abundance and luxury of time. The abundance of love from my man who respects and supports me. Love,smiles and 2 Puppies in my lap as I write this. I am blessed. Yet you who reads this is also blessed!!!

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deepthi
Nov 27, 2015

 beautiful

AM
Nov 25, 2015
 I started my career with the career counsellors saying there is a major problem "LACK OF AMBITION". To the question whether they were relating it to money, they added, " that is an issue and if you are not bothered it is quite OK". They also suggested to chose a career where you get into a staff function rather than a line function.Worked for 11 years in an Institution promoting Industries, a very satisfying career, promoting industries, supporting industrialists with any and every issues, handling/volunteering for anything which nobody else wants to handle, bottomline was to make life interesting and great experience. Money was never an issue (Lucky to have a wife who genuinely believes in simple living), with something spare available to support causes. Quit service the day I was 35, and became footloose and free. Objective was to make life interesting thro' ENCOURAGING AND SUPPORTING  DOING.  The firm idea was one need not work 5 days a week to earn a decent livelih... View full comment
AK
Nov 24, 2015

 Started the 2015 Gratitude Challenge. Very excited about it. Here's something I made: http://i.imgur.com/8Cqaj3q.jpg. 

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Laurie
Nov 24, 2015

 My true self knows that I am sufficient... My true sense of self worth comes from within. Therefore I can't see scarcity in anyone else . I love in the article when we are encouraged to look at our inner resources...creativity, compassion, acceptance ..well the list goes on. There is enough inside us to change the world.

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Marie-France Alexander
Nov 24, 2015

 Grateful for all the blessings of my life, and that I do have enough, and also that I am enough just as I am.  I am grateful for the abundance of good healthy food and that the access is so easy.  Grateful for my spiritual sangha and the nourishment I always receive there.

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Gina
Nov 24, 2015

 I have enough love and support from my family, co-workers, friends. I need to remember to soak in this love and let it overflow to others...

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Jill
Nov 24, 2015

 I have enough---more than enough---of everything I need and want.  Love, friends, money, health, supportive coworkers, laughter and fun...

NS
Nov 24, 2015

 I do have enough love from my Higher Power, my best co-workers, my friends.  I need to take one day at a time and keep my head where my feet are.  The grace I need for today I always received - for just one day at a time.

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Tasha
Nov 24, 2015

 This is about sufficiency being a state of mind. It seems to me a call to reflect, appreciate our inner strength and to see that we don't need to be afraid. I spend a lot of time being afraid, running out of time, money, everything. A change of perspective could perhaps change everything, a prospect that allows me to feel more peaceful and empowered.

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jane
Nov 24, 2015

 I have sufficient, food, heat, housing, love from my children and friends, understanding of the trials I am going through, this is a true blessing , friends have been sufficiently gentle and yet honest with me to help me move forward in my journey. I have sufficient sunlight YAAAYYYYY :) 

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Paula Clark
Nov 24, 2015

This post really resonated with me. I have spent much of my adult life feeling that there simply isn't enough time. What I have come to discover is that I have sufficient time when I am deliberate and intentional about how I choose to spend my time. It requires active reflection and establishing priorities based on what I most value. That realization has grounded me in my own life. As the writer notes, how I spend my time is now much more of an expression of what I value.

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Mish
Apr 15, 2015

 More than enough.  Grateful 

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Terri
Mar 30, 2015

 Basic physical and spiritual needs. 

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Margo McHattie
Dec 8, 2014

 My reaction to this reading is to remember that I am enough, period. And that gives me permission to be in the world from that perspective such that what ever I do, if I am as authentic as I can be it will be enough and I don't need to worry.  And as a result of that I will be provided with all the tools I will need to thrive.  I have a choice of the lens I choose to see the world through; the lens of lack or the lens of abundance.  It is a choice, not always an easy choice when bills are due and I am not sure I'll have enough money, but it is still my choice.  I need to remember that to help me understand my part in my happiness or suffering.

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Csmilligan2003
Nov 7, 2014

 In the nourishment of our attention, our assets expand and grow...PROFOUND 

KE
Nov 3, 2014

 I feel that I have sufficiency in all areas of my life. I am learning to be thankful for everything and with every situation that I encounter. I am blessed and highly favored!

AS
Jun 28, 2014

 I dropped a Dollar  some time back, I just forgot it and it never mattered me any thing in my life. I gave a penny to some one; I still remember it and think of it. Why?  Just because we don't want to give any thing to any one willfully. We expect either gratitude, appreciation or recognition. If that is the feeling no use giving any thing if you cant forget after giving. If god would have been remembering what he has given to us probably he would not have been continuing give us more and more all the time, as we hardly recognise or appreciate what he has given us or is stilll giving us.

AS
Jun 25, 2014

 Every one has a desire and inner feeling to be generous and to give others, but we are always in search of a needing persons and in our that search for a real needing person to whom we should give we over look hundreds of needing persons who come across our search and as a result we don't give and go on searching the needing person.
It is better stop your search and give to one or every one who comes in your way and would be benefited more by your coin than you will be effected by loosing it. You will find hundreds of persons who come across you can be benefited without your loosing hardly anything.
So start giving from today to any one who comes across you and you find he needs your coin more than you need your coin.

CO
Nov 16, 2013

 I feel strongly that I have enough love in my life, that I am very much loved and yet love is unquantifiable.  A little girl of six whom I care for daily, asked me, "Who do you love more, Thomas (her brother) or me?"  I answered, "Who do you love more, your father or mother?" She knew instantly that there was no measurable difference. I know her parents. They love each other and their children well. I feel that I am blessed in that I can't distinguish a degree of difference between the love I feel towards my own two adult children, or my parents or my siblings or my grandchild and friends.. I simply love and this is sufficient.

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Wingsoon Nov 16, 2013

 You are so wonderfully endowed with the capacity to love. I am sure you treat everyone around you in the same way. Keep it up

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Roger W. Otis Nov 3, 2014

 Colleen, thank you for that beautiful expression of love.  I can't help but feel that this is way our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ loves each of us.  I'm accepting...or perhaps 'forming' my own challenge to love all more equally as I go through life.  Thank you for that fine example so beautifully stated.  If you are a writer I would love to read your books.  You have indeed been a blessing to me this day.  Thank you.  

CI
Nov 12, 2013

 Since I missed the 3rd, 4th and 5th days of the 21 day challenge to seek gratitude every single day I am grateful for the fact that there is forgiveness for the errors of my ways for He is merciful and forgiving!

CI
Nov 12, 2013

 On this 6th day of the 21 day challenge I am grateful and surprised by the sufficiency in the love and support I receive from friends and family in times of need...even when the need is unspoken...they just seem to know!

WI
Nov 11, 2013

 I have enough family support to see me through the darkest hours of my heart by-pass operation. I was given so much care and shown so much concern prior to and after my operation

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Mary
Nov 9, 2013

 I have enough time in my life to connect with family and friends, while working from home.

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Chris
Nov 8, 2013

I am grateful for being laid off my job so I can spend time with my husband who has Parkinson's.  Money is always sufficient but time is not. 

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Sharon
Nov 8, 2013

 Support. It seems from the day I was born, there was always someone placed on my journey, at key moments in my lfe, to guide me through difficult times. Be it when I decided to leave an abusive situation, or during the loss of my son. There was always someone who would suddenly appear in my life, stranger or not, that would give me exactly what I needed, guidance, patience and respect, and they would always help me find my way. It really is amazing when you open yourself up to be vulnerable to others and truely listen to advice given. It makes such a difference and for that, I am so grateful.

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Donald Nov 9, 2013

 Sharon, I understand completely - this has been my life experience, and I thank the Universe.

CA
Nov 8, 2013

 While going through a number of surgeries over a period of two years I discovered I had a sufficiency of positive being to overcome the physical, emotional and spiritual challenges presented. I am grateful for my kind, supportive husband; my giving brother and sister-law; my loving sisters, brother and friends - all who encouraged me to find my own way through the challenges and letting me know they were there when and if I needed assistance.

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Sherry
Nov 8, 2013

 I know that I have the sufficient strength to do whatever is required of me today. Each day is a gift from God and along with that gift comes the resources necessary to see me through.

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Yvette
Nov 8, 2013

 Some of the best days of all do not involve the use of money, but the use of our kindness.  What we earn from that act of kindness is priceless and supports our sense of sufficiency.

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Amanda
Nov 7, 2013

 There have been times in my life when resources were little, yet happiness was abundant. At this time in my life, resources are far more plentiful and happiness is still there. I try to think of material means as simply a tool that we all use to assist us and others, but that is in no way connected to the happiness factor. Always being content with what I have at this time in my life is something that allows me to look at the more important aspects of true happiness - the realization of that we are all connected.

CI
Nov 7, 2013

On this 1st day of the 21 day challenge to seek gratitude every single day I am grateful that I can awake every morning and see the beauty of nature even in the midst of all the troubles and turmoil that may surround us everyday.  I have been blessed with sufficient senses to enjoy what beauty surrounds us everyday.   
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bob
Nov 7, 2013

 Today I had not eaten lunch, just grabbed a plastic container for some nacho chips and put them on the passenger seat as I had to drive home.  I stopped and the chips went flying. "F--k I shouted, then as I leaned down to pick them up,  I laughed and said to myself " I have sufficient chips for a snack, sufficient teeth to chew, enough fingers to pick them off the floor....etc..  I changed from a swearing upset man to a thankful, grateful person in a few seconds.  Thanks for the essay on sufficiency.  Tomorrow it is very possible I will meet a man who has 100 MILLION dollars in net worth, yet I feel very wealthy in my own life..

VE
Nov 7, 2013

 da noi in Italia si dice " sapersi accontentare" oppure "apprezzare quello che si ha" talvolta ci si stupisce che di questo tipo di filosofia sappiano usufruire proprio coloro che in apparenza meno posseggonograzie a te del bel modo di riflessione e a Cristina( Dadirri7) che qui mi ha indirizzatoVentis

VE
Nov 7, 2013

 da noi in Italia si dice " sapersi accontentare" oppure "apprezzare quello che si ha" talvolta ci si stupisce che di questo tipo di filosofia sappiano usufruire proprio coloro che in apparenza meno posseggonograzie a te del bel modo di riflessione e a Cristina( Dadirri7) che qui mi ha indirizzatoVentis

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Pamela Tinnin
Nov 7, 2013

Not long ago I read that "if you have a library and a garden, you are rich." (can't remember author or source, but would add "music") We live in a funky old house and on an income designated by our society as "limited." However, the family ranch where we live in Northern California is beautiful beyond words, we have ten bookcases filled with books collected over my 67 years, and a large and very eclectic music collection, plus we raise organic produce for ourselves, for sale, and to give away to those who cannot afford to pay. We are indeed rich with more than a sufficiency of what makes life good.

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kyenne
Nov 7, 2013

 I have a tiny house by most standards (< 800 SF) and it is more than enough! However when I woke today, I realized even before reading this essay that I had made my house smaller by over-filling it. While I am grateful for all I have, it is more than sufficient, and time this winter to unpack what is more-than-enough and share it so others may have access for their own sufficiency.

IN
Nov 7, 2013

my life is full of kitty purrs, my sweet companion ^-^, pink sunsets as my daddy lights up the sky from heaven, the passionate music of Chopin and Beethoven who speaks through silence, grand bat mas, farapus e samba a dance of life, creativity, light, stars, serenity, water all around

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Jeannie
Nov 7, 2013

 I am grateful for a day in which I spent time with myself as well as others.  I am grateful that I was able to offer  service to others.  Today my spiritual, emotional and physical needs were met.  I am grateful that this challenge is more than I expected.  I love surprises.  Thank you.  

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Jane Doe
Nov 7, 2013

 Sufficient.  I try to remind myself it's just stuff.  I have more than what I need if not always what I want and am very fortunate to be in that position.  

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Deborah
Nov 7, 2013

We forget too easily that all that is bought in this world is left behind after we leave. We are born with everything we will ever need right inside of us. It's such a treasure to know that and an inspiration to live by it. Beautiful passage, thank you!

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angie
Nov 7, 2013

 When I worry about getting old, I try to remember that I am lucky to have my life, so many die young

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kristi
Nov 7, 2013

I am grateful for what I have now.  When I am just going along each day just existing I always want more.

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BDeRicco
Nov 7, 2013

 What is "enough"? Is it the amount it costs me to pay my bills/run my household? Is it twice this amount, so that there is some to spare?  I have enough - not everything I need or want; and not cold, or hungry or uninformed...

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Laila Sanchez
Nov 7, 2013

 Having my family,  friends, health, roof over our heads, food on the table, warm clothes and simply breathing is a blessing!

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Ninure da Hippie
Nov 7, 2013

 Having once lost all that I owned, I have discovered that I still have more than I need.

To fail to share is not wrong, it is hurting and damaging myself.

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Nushik
Nov 7, 2013

 There's a saying I've printed and placed on my wall: "I was sad because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet." My family carries the gene for Motor Neurone Disease (Lou Gehrigs disease). I'm grateful every day that in the genetic lottery I was lucky and didn't get the gene. This means my children can't inherit it or pass it on. I don't take for granted walking, eating, breathing.

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Linda
Nov 7, 2013

 I am thankful each day for sufficient health and energy to do all that is required of me at work and for my family.  

AA
Nov 7, 2013

I am blessed with three wonderful children, and one grandchild, who bring so much joy into my life.

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Robyn Folkard
Nov 7, 2013

I feel so empowered and safe knowing that i have sufficiency. I am blessed, and its great to remember that, feel it, live it, know it and embody it.

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Mary Ortiz
Nov 7, 2013

Money comes money goes love is forever! I am kept woman Jesus has blessed me  without or  with a job!!! 
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Julie
Nov 7, 2013

 Thank you. Every time I feel myself getting caught up in the world of money and material things as measures of the value of your life I feel stressed and anxious because no matter how hard I try I never measure up. But a part of that is because each time I feel I am supposed to have achieved more, have more and be more in this way, it is like saying that as I am I am not good enough, when inside I know that we all are. I feel the pull because it seems to be the way of the world but it is not in line with my true values. When I sit quietly with nature I feel a sense of peace, abundance and joy. I love these moments. They are the wealth building of my soul.

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Ann Anderson Nov 7, 2013

 This is so true. We have all we need within us.

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Cynthia H
Nov 7, 2013

 I'm feeling so grateful that I have enough, and that I have many wonderful reminders that I have time, energy, and goods that I can share with others

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Susan Mary Koehne
Nov 7, 2013

 God has graciously provided all I need.

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Mindy Lou
Nov 7, 2013

 Sometimes I just want to live off the land because money has become the thing that most humans strive for.  To get things.  Things can be helpful and wonderful and pretty, but there are so many other wonderful things that are free.  I want to focus on those things.

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Bobbi
Nov 7, 2013

Growing up with limited resources, my family subscribed to the old saying, "Less is More."  It worked until later in life, I realized  that "More" came with expectations...possibly of rewards.  I now believe that "Less is Enough."  

DG
Nov 7, 2013

 These are timely words given my current circumstances - thank you.

Namaste.

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Lisa Nov 7, 2013

Namaste

LI
Nov 7, 2013

Give of yourself and the universal energies will reward you...be honest and come from the heart.

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Lysa
Dec 17, 2009

What a beautiful way to describe moving from thoughts of lack and limitation to overflowoing abundance...from "surviving" to thriving." Your prose is moving and inspiriational. Thank you.

SR
Dec 12, 2009
As usual, this was a deep and apt passage. Three big ideas stood out for me. First, Lynne writes, "In our relationship with money, it is using money in a way that expresses our integrity; using it in a way that expresses value rather than determines value." I understood the idea of using money to express value, but I wasn't clear on what she meant by using money to determine value, until the meditation. It was funny, because, I've come across this idea many times in the form of the fallacy of sunk-cost thinking, which is a foundational idea in Decision Analysis (and finance-related fields). Everyone who studies basic finance is usually taught that what you've paid for something in the past is gone. It ain't coming back! You cannot use the investment of the past to determine the value in the future. In other words, the amount of money that I spent on something cannot be used to determine what it is worth to me at the present time. If I use it in that way, I would have comm... View full comment
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Zachary Pope
Dec 8, 2009

I very much enjoyed this article. It is very easy at this time of year for me to get down because things haven't been going well financially for my family. But realizing that I can view what my family and I have been given as sufficient and do as much as is possible with that is a blessing. I also believe that the time we can give to others can be the most priceless gift of all. Everyone has a different amount of money available to them, but everyone has the same amount of time. What we do with that is priceless and can go towards blessings the lives of others.

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Sharon
Dec 8, 2009

Fear is a huge tool being used to direct our energy from our source and self referral, to the opportunists and object referral, in our world.  Fear as a tool to hook you into another's dream, can only work if you choose to focus on it, put your energy into it.  However, if you choose to focus on solutions for your own problems, changing and growing as needed, flowing around obstacles and making this life an adventure without fear, you find that you have everything you need to succeed and make your own dreams come true. Focus on what you want and not on what you don't want, because you will get it.  We manifest into our lives what we put the most attention on and that can't be changed, it is universal law.  So put your energy into focus, total focus, on what you want and make it happen. 

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Wendy Nov 7, 2013

Excellent comment...helpful...inspiring...Love it...Thank-you! 

PA
Dec 8, 2009

This reading is completely relevant to this day in this month. So many are struggling to come to terms with reduced incomes during a season traditionally celebrated with excess.

Our money, our possessions, can be either a burden or a blessing. This is decided by whether we, ourselves, choose to be a burden or a blessing. This decision has nothing to do with wealth, health, intelligence, education, looks, ability, or any other thing we use to define worthiness in ourselves and others. It has only to do with recognizing our unique place in this world at this time. It has only to do with embracing our ability to transform our world - for good or bad - and deciding how we will use this power.

Thank you for a lovely holiday reading.

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Karen Nov 7, 2013

 I completely agree.  Some of us don't get the opportunity to really think about "our unique place in this world at this time" until something sends us off our comfortable track - loss of a job, illness, etc.  In many ways, these times of struggle can be blessings in disguise by compelling us to re-examine or re-evaluate how we spend our time.

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Donald Green Nov 7, 2013

 I totally agree with you; my current circumstances have allowed me to reevaluate my perspectives and my priorities. I now have a new outlook on life.