One making the decision is of him/her own. The outcome received may be the result of influence of others, situations, change in the perspective of one's. As by the time, one become more & more strong in terms of self-determination.
throughout last 7 to 8 years, I came to know that anything you want, you will get it, if you worth deserve it. Here, the deserver means capability in terms of being human who is always ready to do anything good to others, he/she can. To me, this process is going on & on.