This is my biggest struggle in coaching, especially when I think I know the answers? and sometimes I might? (one of my jobs was to have the answers so people still expect that of me). I think the line about not being able to stand to be with someone in pain rings true to me... I wonder if my need to fix, is a need to not deal with my own fears around the issue at hand, so a trigger will make my needing to fix stronger...something to work on.