Very relatable on both sides of the coin. I interpret this as not consuming my headspace with what others should be doing with their life. I donâ€™t take it as not caring for and supporting others in respect to THEIR decisions. Worrying and creating expectations on someone elseâ€™s life vs being supportive with healthy boundaries are two separate events. The difference is the â€œyou shouldâ€, â€œyou needâ€, â€œyou..â€ statements vs â€œwhat can I do to create a healthy relationship with this person?â€ and â€œAre their choices negatively impacting me? Should I create better boundaries to buffer it or let go?â€ Thatâ€™s my business. What they do, decisions they make, their emotion and behavior is theirs.