My strategy is to cultivate the root(soul)for the blossoming tree. The faith & the firm conviction is in the fact that all human souls are divine, full of Love,power,compassion,joy, friendship & harmony without any exception. Very careful to anything contrary happening/arising ,go back to the above Universal Truth and control the mind. Yes difficult but not impossible if one is serious.Pesistance and perseverance pays.Meditate with open eyes on the visualization of this reality. Lastly surrender to HIM i.e. your own true self earnestly.