Just sharing a perspective:
Shiv & Shakti are only reflections of our higher creative & logical selves. The passage speaks of the forever debate that goes on in my mind/soul.. to help or not to. When I 'help', am I really being 'compassionate' cause it may not really help the person Im trying to help, as he is not yet ready to receive it. How do I make him/her see it is then the question for the Shiv or the logical higher me.
I do not know what helps me see gold in every experience. I do know that being able to look at things/situations from a distance, taking a pause to look from a distance, trying to get different other perspectives on the same situation are ways which may help see gold (God) in every experience
Personal story sharing.. some other time... or this may become as long as an essay!!!