When I chose to be the best care giver I could be for my husband, three years passed by quickly. Suddenly, I was a widow. After realizing each breathe he received was a blessing, I knew my life would be filled with thankfulness and grace. Pretending to realize the true meaning of Aloha! Hello or Good -bye helped me to live each day with true thankfulness! Time travels fast, and can be fleeting away quickly. Make the most of each breathe!