Righteousness is a major problem for all conflicts. When we observe something is Not Right and resist or rise against it, it may arise ego clashes or war depending on the nature and size of conflict. What gets lost in the whole scene is love and understanding for the other party. If in moments of anger, resistance or violence , we can still keep love for the other buddy and good intentions alive, hatred cannot come into picture. Arising, arguments would still happen but with right fundamental thoughts and attitude.