Very insightful article and worth practicing TOTAL ENEGAGEMENT - starting with oneself through meditation. There is a huge problem to tckle today viz relationship overload....Approach/response of other participants also shapes the quality of interaction. I really like to engage fully with everyone I meet but in an active job+ social life, one fails often in this, due to priorities set by others like bosses, spouses, gurus ! One also has to suffer a lot of superficial dialogue in meetings, parties and even spiritual gatherings. I wsh that hypocracy vanishes from our lives and we can live/interact with other truthfully....sounds like an utopian idea but am trying to find practical ways to bring this in my life.