someone wounds me because he does not know that he is wounding me . he does not know our essential oneness .the oneness of humanity.he does not know that a wound that he inflicts on me is the same wound which if when inflicted on him will cause him the same pain and suffering that he is giving to me . actually someone must have wounded him so he is wounding me. i also must have wounded someone and so today someone is wounding me.no one realizes when and where all this wounding business started. somewhere someone has to put the break and put a stop to all this madness .somewhere sometime someone has to take that first step. Osho is right when he says that the mind will never ever heal him .with mind he will only go on thinking about retaliation.of his seperateness from the inflicter. but with the heart there will never be any seperateness .no inflicter and no inflicted. heart sees no divisions .it see all as one single whole. by enduring what i call a wound coming from him i have actually found myself .and if there is none other than myself then from where can inflicter or inflicted can come into being and exist.