Talking with a friend recently I realised when arguing we became defensive and used our learned behaviour, flight and fight responses. The end result was not good, so together we decided to watch our actions, and be aware of these behaviours, so that if we do end up arguing again it will not result in that bad experience, but help us learn more about each other. I think this article is so timely. :-)
On May 4, 2010 Pree wrote :
Talking with a friend recently I realised when arguing we became defensive and used our learned behaviour, flight and fight responses. The end result was not good, so together we decided to watch our actions, and be aware of these behaviours, so that if we do end up arguing again it will not result in that bad experience, but help us learn more about each other. I think this article is so timely. :-)