Impermanence is the only permanence.So U cant loose anything."Only a true lover never dies said Kabir. Why Wander Away but enter UR Temple of Love.Love not grown in gardens nor sold@market.He who wants it,king or commoner gives his head,heart and hands to take it".No obligation, no distraction and no depression. Recently Home Stay with a Dutch Family,Holland and visiting a divorced relation,Germany resulted in 'Mangal Maitry' with small acts of kindness manifesting the latent Divinity within. Cheers with Smiles.