I have another suggestion for decision making. It is strongly related to the what David Sudar offered, but I think is even easier to embody. This works for any yes/no proposition. Tell yourself you will flip a coin; heads is yes, tails is no. Then flip the coin, and as you get ready to reveal the answer, monitor your body for its reaction as you see the coin. If you have a positive reaction, go for it. If you have a negative or off-putting reaction, realize that is not really what you want to do, and change course now! I have found this to be fool-proof, and is especially helpful for those of us that study the pros and cons (with written lists), and talk ourselves into an answer based on logic. Logic is not always a good master. Trust your heart and it's embodied knowing, which you can uncover this way. And it will also help to circumvent the ego.
On Apr 8, 2025 Steven Crisp wrote :