Disturb Me, Please!

I think a listener should be open-minded to the diffences because there are many ways to look at the world, you needn't be nervous to it. And maybe we will always feel shocked with other position but our exploration and knowledge of the world is built with shock. It deepens our understanding of the world. That's how we think as a good listener in my opinion. And then,as a good listner to communicate,you be quite or say some friendly questions to let other express their thoughts and positions comfortably.All in all,the ability to appreciate diverse perspectives is the fundation of effective communication and a way to explore the world. we should happy to be disturbed to be a good listener