In early recovery I found out that I was an emotional enmesher, I lived others ups and downs, wins and losses, felt their pain and suffering and basically was an exposed nerve with no healthy boundaries. It's good to know your motivating factors and even though you may be trying to help you could still be compromising their integrity. As a healer in recovery, we go into engines that are hot and running, and we are building the plane while it is flying, bringing everyone home with a safe landing is the mark of our craft. Peace, Matt
The universe is calling and we are listening,smelling the flowers, the different colors of green on a tree, pick up the soil and touch it, feel the breeze on your cheeks, we are connected with each precious breath, radical kindness, unconditional positive regards, you are loved!