I use the word we a lot. The we is reallyme (I), which tells me that I am not just a single entity but at any given time I am different, self, father, husband, brother, son (to mother to father) friend... nota one but a many faceted being. So, nothing is is singular we are all connected. Duality of the one.
It is only when you are truly alone can you then feel and know who you are. There is no one telling you who you are and what you SHOULD do. You now make your own pathway and your feelings are your own. It is most liberating.