Your essay was really inspiring, and I couldn't have read it at a better time. For the last few weeks I have been tussling with the question of whether I should join the university in which I had gained admission or not. I just couldn't decide. But I finally did decide to take it up, and what you said makes perfect sense.the willingness to make difficult decisions; the resolve to approach decision-making with an open mind, a recognition of uncertainty, and a relentless search for greater understanding -- and the ability to remain true to oneself in the face of adversity and challenge , are very important in life. I feel so liberated that I have finally decided!!!