Yes. I rather simplistic perspective from someone that chose a different path to growth and personal enlightenment. I am reminded of the movie "The Holy Mountain" written and directed by Alejandro Jodorowsky. A group of spiritual seekers walk a grueling trail up a mountain - a metaphor for spiritual seeking. Part way up a young man meets a woman and they decide to marry; he leaves the path up this mountain for a different path. The spiritual teacher and leader of the group tells the young man that he has chosen the shortest but most difficult path to spiritual attainment. Marriage is, if one lets it be, a spiritual path. A path of growth that continuously reflects the true state of our being back to us, if we are willing to look and to see, to listen and to hear. It is a most challenging and rewarding path if one has the fortitude to follow it to its end. One can develop wisdom, equanimity, and true love of the heart with commitment and dedication to the relationship. It is a partnership that can anchor a life in continued growth, if one chooses.
On Mar 17, 2026 Alan wrote :