When I am working on a play, especially with/on a character that is strong and confident and smart, it is as if I am soaring. If at the same time, the actors I get to work with are humble though talented, committed and generous, there is no other place I'd rather be. Unfortunately, these experiences are rare - amazing though when it happens. Also, working with youth, especially students who hide in front of you, who are afraid to be seen, afraid to make a mistake- <br />To witness their transformation, to them come fully into their own, their voice body, their joy -- it is beyond moving; it makes life worthwhile.
When I was going to Ohio State as a communications major, I was having personal problems and was academically dismissed. After taking a few years off to get back on track, I petitioned to get back into the college of arts and sciences, specifically the journalism department. I was denied acceptance back into the school. So I wrote the dean and requested a meeting. In our meeting, he told me that the Journalism dept was full up, that there was a waiting list for even the pre-req classes. He asked me what I loved. <br />I told him theatre but that I could not get a degree in this. He said, why not? Follow what you love. FOLLOW WHAT YOU LOVE. I ended up getting my BA in Drama and then pursued my MFA at UofW in their professional acting training program before Moving to NYC. I've forgotten his name ... Dr. Pepple, I think it was, but I am so very grateful to him. He changed my life.
Last year in Feb. my partner John and I were invited to come to India -- it turned out to be life changing for me and also amazing preparation for the journey that I've had in the nursing home with my grandmother. I am more compassionate, more loving and patient and less judgmental because of the experience in Gujarat. The entire trip was paid for by an anonymous donor, this still amazes me and stops me. Perhaps angels do exist.
I don't really have a bucket list per se but I do have a dream. I have a recurring vision of a Home on a hill, not just any home but a center of sorts where my partner (who is considered one of the top grief counselors around) and I work with youth and adults; creative exploration -- finding healing by combining the work of mind body spirit and family. There would be movement, story-telling, journaling and play making; individual and group counseling. It would be a place of transformation with both contemplation and creation. It is a dream of mine.
Above all, be kind to others and to yourself.