Just minutes ago, I made few batches of buttered popcorn and a ham and cheese platter ( with crackers, of course) for my son and his visiting friends.  They never ask me, I offer ... Not because "I should" but because next summer this group of boys will be off to college!  Though it is late and I was tired, the effort was so worth it!  As I will never be able to relive this day, loving "my boys" is what I do because He first loved me.  It's all about "modeling"  in His Spirit.