Mmmm...nobody is holding us on teh wheel, we are clinging to it ourselves. There are no chains on this wheel.
Food for thought and to mull over. As i grow clearer in my priorities (health, parents) my muscle to withstand social pressures strengthens. I grow solid, within. I stand tall, on the inside. Please let me not fall, hold me, in your mercy, O lord!
The joy of the job is in the doing itself. When i am immersed in the experience, i feel the flow and fing myself dissolving in the flow as things come together and proceed. Quite naturally, i sense myself as a witness, not the doer of the action, and as the one through whom the action comes through. I become a channel of blessings!
I thank the universe, the people and places that have been immensely challenging and caused me to stretch way beyond my imagination. I surrender to the divine design.
Its not an easy task. Perhaps, remembering that each action is done for a good motive (though the motive may not always be apparent to us) can help. Giving the person full responsibility for her actions, thoughts and attitudes allows a softness and refrain from overthinking.
I gained a very good insight that when i experience anger, despite good intentions, i am being selfish. Good check point. Thank you for that insight.