All Comments By Xiang Yan

Loneliness will not go away until you become strong enough to face loneliness and despise it. Different beliefs are different paths, and at the end of life you will find that these paths end in exactly the same way.

It is true that there is no right or wrong in this world, but the real judgment is only be sentenced by right or wrong.

The points in the article are undoubtedly nonsense. To listen to others, to understand them, and to communicate in such a way exists only in dreams. There are three classes in society: the basic class, the cadre class, and the leadership class. The leadership class is the one who take care of the whole situation, and in order to make the cadre class follow their orders with absolute loyalty, they never tell their true intentions and thoughts, because they want to make sure that the cadre class will always work hard and remain loyal, which involves a lot of communication skills, but not the ones that are mentioned in the article. The cadre class, caught in the middle, needs their subordinates to fear him and be absolutely obedient, but also has to put up a posture of "I am at your beck and call" in front of their superiors, and their every word needs to be examined, or else the subordinates will not follow his orders and the superiors will not trust him. This leads to the need for people at the cadre level to become very cunning. At the end of the , the basic class, who bear all the pressure, will be scolded by the leaders if they are not careful, in order to keep their jobs they must learn to put on a mask, keep smiling no matter what happens, and say words against their will just to keep their jobs. In society, no one will take out their precious time to understand others, to listen to feel, there are also with their own purposes. Communication is just to get the information you can't know, how to be a listener is not important, the important thing is how to listen to others to get the information you need. If the other person does not say what they need, then how to induce the other person to say it. Through the ages, how many people say they understand each other but actually deceive others.The day may come when people understand and respect each other and tolerate each other, but not today, not tomorrow.