I find as I quiet myself to listen, I discover the rich gifts that others are willing to share with me.  As a result I am grateful.  Slowing my thoughts and allowing myself to be, instead of the running chatter and judgement has become a much more valuable tool.  Material things need to be either useful or to remind me of either relationships or experiences that I love.  This brings me joy that I in turn have to share with others....especially smiles!