Reader comment on Stephan Rechtschaffen's passage ...
On Oct 31, 2011 beena hora wrote:|
i wholeheartedly agree with the fact happiness is the consequence of my own actions. I have to create it myself.I am a teacher by profession and on the days I feel totally exhausted, I create a change which is turning on music of my choice in the car and turning on the volume. Believe me upon reaching home I am fully refreshed and a different person. Depending fully on others for my happiness isn't a great idea. Also sometimes in adverse times, accepting and coping up well with the circumstances is also a good step towards your happiness. This is our ability to shift gears.If I ruin my present by sulking, moaning and groaning about the unpleasant things that are likey to happen isruining my own precious moments of life.
On Oct 20, 2013 Aruna wrote:
Nice view, but there is always another alternative view. Even when we take all the positive steps, some relationships leave us scared for life. When a loved ones cheats on you.....or worst you see you previous daughter being cheat upon. I lived my pain.....but witnessing my poor child go through the same is too much.