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When You Don't Choose Love You Choose Fear, by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross & David Kessler

FaceBook  On Aug 10, 2016 Akshay Sadana wrote:

 When you don't love the biggest fear is loosing the love.

Actually in our life when we love some one it is not we love some one, It is actually that  we want other person  should love us and he loves us.

When we say we do not love. It is the other person is not giving us response.

This fear of rejection is the biggest fear.

 

Beyond the Conflict of Inner Forces, by Cherokee Story

FaceBook  On Aug 10, 2016 Akshay Sadana wrote:

 No one can make you do any thing unless you yourself want to do it.
If you keep aside your personal gains or ego nothing wrong ever happens and you do not do any thing wrong.

 

Beyond the Conflict of Inner Forces, by Cherokee Story

FaceBook  On Aug 10, 2016 Akshay Sadana wrote:

 On this blog we expect mature comments.
From your comment it seems you too are facing conflict of other forces. You can get rid of your problem by meditation.

 

Beyond the Conflict of Inner Forces, by Cherokee Story

FaceBook  On Aug 10, 2016 Akshay Sadana wrote:

 Conflict is only when you think that you are right.
You have to understand that other person too may be right.
You can not always be right. Try to understand the point of view of other person particularly your children.

 

When You Don't Choose Love You Choose Fear, by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross & David Kessler

FaceBook  On Sep 29, 2014 Akshay Sadana New Jersey (NJ) wrote:

 Isha, I do agree to you that both the thing exist at the same time because without one there is no existence of the other. The more you love more you fear, lesser you love lesser you fear.
It is great to know that some one loves you and just at the same moment a fear starts in our mind : Will he continue me loving like this all the time? and so with one (Love) the other(Fear) has got existence and without the one the other does not exist.

When we take this in reference to God when we start praying god or get devoted to god or start loving god we start fearing , we may not do any thing to annoy him- and that way with one the other takes existence, if we don't love god we don't fear any thing.

 

Staying In Your Own Business, by Byron Katie

FaceBook  On Aug 10, 2014 Akshay Sadana NJ (New Jersey) wrote:

Nidhi- If you like him it will be a comfortable union, and if you don't like the other person, the thing will be difficult. But you have no choice but to be in your own business. Better like the situation you are in and make the things good for both or you have a choice to leave or be unhappy.
In my case i  would like to adopt my self to the situation and be in the business.

 

When You Don't Choose Love You Choose Fear, by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross & David Kessler

FaceBook  On Aug 9, 2014 Akshay Sadana,NJ (New Jersey) wrote:

 I was writing my comment but some how it seems that either i pressed the wrong key or it got erased and as such i am writing it again. Fear is one thing from which no one in this universe has escaped  Every one fears some thing or the other but i am going to tell you one thing which is going to change your life all together and you will realise that you have wasted your precious time and life in fearing what you should not have done. The interesting and the most strange thing is that we have the worst fears and in other words fiear the thing which have not actually happened but is actually yet to happen. It means we never fear or are worried about today.  We are just worried about tomorrow. Which is not in our hands and is yet to come. This may happen or not happen is uncertain but most of the times it does not actually happen and we go on worrying and fearing making our life miserable where we could have lived in peace without worrying. I am taking an extreme case: We have got a life, we don't know how long we shall live and we live fearlessly. But if we know we are going to die after 5 years (Like we have cancer) we will  not be able to live comfortable today. We shall just ruine our these five years. Which again is not certain as there may be some new medicine which may ultimately cure us and may increase our life span or we may culturally die tomorrow by some accident. So nothing is sure, but we just the fear makes us not live our life today comfortably. That is the way we never worry for today when and where we are today but we just worry for tomorrow that is not in our hands and is not certain. So if we just leave this tomorrow in that is in the hands of god we shall be able to live comfortably without fear and suffering. If you just relax and think you will always find what you feared yesterday and years back has actually not happened or has rather never happened but you lost that precious time what you could enjoy or could have lived pe  See full.

 I was writing my comment but some how it seems that either i pressed the wrong key or it got erased and as such i am writing it again.
Fear is one thing from which no one in this universe has escaped 
Every one fears some thing or the other but i am going to tell you one thing which is going to change your life all together and you will realise that you have wasted your precious time and life in fearing what you should not have done.
The interesting and the most strange thing is that we have the worst fears and in other words fiear the thing which have not actually happened but is actually yet to happen. It means we never fear or are worried about today.  We are just worried about tomorrow. Which is not in our hands and is yet to come. This may happen or not happen is uncertain but most of the times it does not actually happen and we go on worrying and fearing making our life miserable where we could have lived in peace without worrying.

I am taking an extreme case: We have got a life, we don't know how long we shall live and we live fearlessly. But if we know we are going to die after 5 years (Like we have cancer) we will  not be able to live comfortable today. We shall just ruine our these five years. Which again is not certain as there may be some new medicine which may ultimately cure us and may increase our life span or we may culturally die tomorrow by some accident. So nothing is sure, but we just the fear makes us not live our life today comfortably.

That is the way we never worry for today when and where we are today but we just worry for tomorrow that is not in our hands and is not certain.

So if we just leave this tomorrow in that is in the hands of god we shall be able to live comfortably without fear and suffering.

If you just relax and think you will always find what you feared yesterday and years back has actually not happened or has rather never happened but you lost that precious time what you could enjoy or could have lived peacefully.

I will suggest, please leave tomorrow in the hands of God and live today without fear. Tomorrow is going to wonderful as God has never planned continuous misfortunes for you rather he has created a solution for all your problems and you are bound to get a solution for you all problems and fears.

So leave the fear and live happily.

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Staying In Your Own Business, by Byron Katie

FaceBook  On Jul 21, 2014 Akshay Sadana, NJ wrote:

When it come to staying in your own business It is a reflection of some one's staying in his own self and in his own sphere where he is not disturbed or dominated by any one els.
We have a nature of being our own master and when we can not be our own master we start getting disturbed.
We jut want to do what we like and fallow the faith or path we like not the criticism of any body els.
it is like having  our own independence.
What actually needed is sharing with will giving with our own willingness.
You a brother and sister where as in child hood the younger one/Or the older one likes to posses every thing by himself.  He will not like to give/share any thing to the other brother. In that case those brother and sister will always be a fight with each other. The other brother and sister who are sharing what they have, there is no fight at all.
That is the only thing when we want to have every thing by our selves and don't want to share even with our brothers and sister the problem comes and we become disturbed with our own self and all the times irritated.
But if we have the habit of sharing we have no problem the whole world is our house and we do not have any problem any where because the whole word is our business.
 

Reveal Your Own Wholeness, by Carol Carnes

FaceBook  On Jul 12, 2014 Akshay Sadana, NJ wrote:

 I very well believe in Mental Healing. I have found it to be very effective on me. I will share my experience and trust if it is passed on to others it will benefit lot many people who are suffering and are dependent on medicines. In this write up I am given my one experience and I will let my friends know the other ways I had used it.

 I has a big problem I could not sleep after going to bed for many hours. Or if while sleeping my sleep was  disturbed due to some reason I could not sleep again for hours together. In other words I was suffering with Insomnia.

I even tried medicines which were effective to some extent. But my problem still continued till again I got an advice from my old father.

He suggested me that I should treat myself with self treatment or in a way through hypnotic treatment.
I was advised to start chanting “My feet are sleeping, my feet are sleeping, my feet are sleeping….. then gradually move to my legs are sleeping, then my thighs are sleeping, then my abdomen is sleeping , then my chest is sleeping , My limbs are sleeping, My head is sleeping and finally  I am sleeping.
Initially for couple of days it took long time before I was really sleeping but within a fortnight I could not even reach to my limbs are sleeping.  And now when I get to bed I simply say I am sleeping and before long I am actually in Deep sleep.

I think there can’t be a better example than this to your own self.
I can assure, all those who are suffering with Insomnia will find it a best Self Treatment for there tortures Problem.
Please do let me the result if you try and find it effective so that it can be conveyed to thousands and thousands of persons who are suffering with this problem.

 

Beyond the Conflict of Inner Forces, by Cherokee Story

FaceBook  On Jul 11, 2014 Akshay Sadana, NJ wrote:

 Inner forces do not fight only for evil or anger, there are many other types of fight goes inside us.
Many times it is between right or wrong, favor to one and disfavor to other, between love and duty, between friend and family what to choose. All the life we have situations where by we are unable to decide what  to do and what not to do.
Hundreds and thousands of times in our life we have situations where by we have to fight with our selves to find what to do and what not to do and what is right and what is wrong. Lot many times there is no evil in what we are unable to decide. It is only the justification what to do in a particular situation.
Many a times we have a problem in our mind to continue with the present job and between joining a new Job.
So we are in conflict  of thoughts and that is the practical problem we face in situations where there is no one to guide us. So what we should do at that time?

Many a times i have been in that situation with no answer.
At last I found a solution, which has never been wrong and I never had to regret.

That's what i am going to suggest all the readers. (The answer to this problem was given to me by my father whom i trusted well.)

If you are ever in such a situation just write the problem in few words or few lines. Keep it there for the night and in the morning take that paper as a letter form your son who is seeking an advice from you.

So now what you would suggest to your son in that situation?
What you would suggest to your son do the same and you would never be wrong.
I can swear,  it has never proved to be wrong, in my life. I assure you if you do the same you will never regret for your decision in your life.